You know that guy you have to text three times before he actually deems you worthy of a reply? Yeah, you don’t really need him.
And how about the guy who keeps stringing you along, keeping you hooked just enough to never leave but always having it in the back of your mind? Well, he clearly doesn’t give a fuck about you and guess what else? You don’t need him either!
The honest truth here is that if somebody wants you in their life, they’ll make you aware of it.
There are no mind games when he wants you to be his morning kiss. There is no stringing you along when he wants a committed relationship with you and there is no ghosting when he wants to hear your voice in good times and bad.
The funny thing about life is… we are always attracted to those who aren’t good for us and those who are actually worthy of our time don’t get their time in the sun because we are too preoccupied hoping the fuckboy will decide to commit.
We live in a wicked cycle of giving our attention to all the wrong people and turning a blind eye to those who are actually attracted to us.
After having been through the cycle so many times myself… I realized that enough is enough. Anyone who clearly doesn’t give a flying fuck about me is not a person I want or need in my life.
You don’t need a guy you have to beg for attention. You don’t need a guy who won’t make plans with you because he feels he could do better. And you most certainly don’t need a guy who never asks a simple, “How are you?’’
You are enough exactly the way you are and if somebody is making you feel otherwise, fuck him! You don’t need him.
Stop comparing yourself to others, thinking there is something wrong with you, just because one irrelevant person isn’t interested.
Stop feeling unlovable because one toxic man cannot love you the way you deserve to be loved. Their shortcomings are not a reflection of you! When somebody cannot see a good thing standing in front of them, it’s on them, not you.
Learn when it’s time to walk away and never allow yourself to look back. Going back to a man who can’t love you is only contributing to a sense of your worthlessness, which is the furthest thing from the truth.
Think about it this way. Do you honestly want somebody that you constantly need to convince that you are worthy of love? Do you really want somebody who makes you feel like a second option every second of every day?
I didn’t think you did!
You will find a man who will fall in love with the way you laugh and those little wrinkles that form around your mouth. You will find a man who will never think that you are ‘too much’ and he won’t be able to get enough of you.
You will find a man who will text you first just to say good morning and who won’t make you compete for his attention. Don’t settle for less. Don’t settle for somebody who doesn’t give a fuck about you.
If you feel like you constantly have to fight for him to stay and see your worth, he’s not meant to be in your life!
Don’t waste another breath on a man who doesn’t see how amazing you are. Don’t let a man who doesn’t see beyond your exterior occupy your mind. You are more beautiful than he could ever understand.
Instead of investing so much of your love and energy into somebody who doesn’t spend a minute thinking about you, invest that time in yourself! Put yourself first and love yourself!
You deserve to be somebody’s first thought in the morning and last one at night. You deserve someone who will want to comfort you when you’re broken. You deserve somebody who will invest his time in you.
And until you find that somebody, be that person for yourself!
After all, you’re the one you’re stuck with the longest. Make sure to love yourself accordingly!