Love is the one thing that can’t be defined and has no source you can put your finger on. In most of the cases, it just ‘is’. When women fall in love with unavailable men, there are a couple of reasons for that which even they’re not even aware of.
Falling for someone who is married, or even in a relationship, is not true love. He’s promised himself to another woman and you’re aware of it, even if you choose to be blind for a while. No matter if you’re dating an unavailable man or you’re just in love with him – it’s not real love. That’s a sign you need a boyfriend and you’re ready to fully commit to someone.
Let’s face the reality: you’re probably not even in love with him. You just feel the need to be with someone who understands you, cares about you and is willing to be what you need him to be. You badly need someone to be there for you. So, when you see how he’s always there for his wife or his girlfriend, you wish he was there for you, as well. You admire the love they have for each other and how he takes care of her. You want to share that kind of connection with someone, but you’ve never met anyone who would be ready for that. You’ve been disappointed in your life so many times that you’ve lost any hope that you’ll find someone for yourself.
So now you think that he’s the only decent guy in the whole world and you want to be with him. Well, he’s not the only decent guy, don’t worry. There are many decent guys in this world and one will find you for sure. After every rain comes a rainbow and your rainbow will come very soon. The sooner you realize that you don’t truly love this unavailable man, the sooner you’ll be ready to meet your soulmate.
In the meantime, you need to understand that your love for someone unavailable isn’t real and that it’ll disappear when you find some else to fall in love with. You are just attracted to him because he has those qualities of a strong grownup man. And those qualities are:
1. He knows what love is.
He’s completely aware of his emotions and he’s not afraid to show them. He understands what love truly is and how to show it to other people. He’s ready to do anything for the woman he loves. And when a man knows how to treat his girlfriend right, he instantly becomes sexier. Who wouldn’t want to be with someone who will always be by her side and ready to do anything for her?
2. He’s ready to take responsibility.
He has no problem taking responsibility for anything. He’ll always make time to help his girlfriend or his wife with anything in the household. You don’t have to ask him to take the trash out. He’ll do it anyway. He knows that it’s his responsibility, too, to keep their household clean. It’s his home, as well.
3. He is ready to commit to someone for the rest of his life.
When a man says, ‘I do’, he instantly becomes sexier. His decisiveness makes him sexy. Not only is his decision is solid and unbreakable, but it shows how much he’s ready to commit to it. He committed to that decision to be with his wife for the rest of his life. That’s something every woman dreams of: to be unconditionally loved by someone till the end of time. Every man wants that, too, but it takes them much longer to realize that. Those who realize it in time are immediately more attractive and wanted.
4. He’s confident.
He has a woman by his side who loves him and that makes him feel invincible. He doesn’t have to worry whether he’s going to be appealing to some girls or have to hide some of his personality traits in order to be liked by others. He doesn’t care if someone likes him. He is who he is and has a woman who truly loves him. That kind of confidence is the sexiest trait on anyone. If everybody took some time to realize that it doesn’t matter what anyone thinks of them, they would be much sexier.
5. He’s serious.
Sure, he can be funny with his friends. But when it comes to talking about his wife and to her, he’s deadly serious. She’s the most important person in his life and he will never make fun of her. He’ll always take her seriously.
