If you keep on acting the way you do, it’s not going to end well. You have to understand that you cannot control every aspect of the universe. It’s nice to have plans and a goal in life. It’s great when you stick to things you achieve, but it’s horrible when those plans become something you must do or otherwise you’re doomed.
You have to learn that life doesn’t end if you don’t achieve your goals. You have to adjust to life as it goes and the new things it brings. As time goes by, life changes and your decisions and your plans have to change, too. Nothing is permanent.
You have to learn that it takes time to heal, and that bottling up negative feelings won’t make them go away. If you pretend nothing happened, it will only make you feel worse in the future. Too much of the negativity and pain will pile up on you and you won’t be able to dive out.
So, you can pretend everything is okay. You can fake smile all you want and convince everyone that you’re at your best. For as long as you’re lying to yourself, you’re not doing yourself any favors.
This is the year in which you have to take action. You cannot sit around and wait for things to happen by themselves. No one is in charge of your happiness but you. The moment has come – it’s now where you are supposed to take action that will affect your whole life.
Relationships are very important to you because you are social creatures. Well, this life decision has to do something with relationships – not your relationships with others, but with yourself. You are the only person who can help you. You have to understand that once and for all.
You’ve been too childish for too long. You’ve been avoiding growing up and taking the responsibility that comes with it. You have to make a change in your life, ASAP!
When I say life, I mean your love life. Don’t settle anymore; take things seriously for a change. Ask yourself: do you want to be with the person you’re with right now? Can you imagine your life with them? Be honest with yourself and answer the questions that are subtly nagging in the back of your mind. This will be the step forward for you.
You have to learn to think with your head more. Don’t make any sudden decisions because you’ll end up regretting them. Usually, when you decide to do something, nothing and no one can change your mind.
Everything you do, you do better than anyone else. When you love, you love better, when you work, you work better. Well, learn that you aren’t the best in everything. Learn you have competition and use your head to truly become better. Work hard!
You live in a delusion, thinking that when you want something, it gives you the right to have it. Well, things don’t work that way, and it is about time for you to find that out. There is nothing bad in wanting things, in aspiring to have and do more, but sometimes a person needs to be realistic and you haven’t been that person.
You have to learn to be more humble because life will tear you apart if you continue to expect only the best happening to you.
This is your year, definitely. You’re finally going to resolve everything that was bothering you since you were a little kid. This year, you’ll finally get all the answers to the questions that were bothering you for years.
You’ve finally decided to move from the dead spot you’ve been sitting in for years and do something by yourself. This year you’re going to heal finally, but the bad news is that the healing you’re about to face won’t be a pretty sight to see.
All those feelings you’ve been bottling up for years will come bursting out. But once you deal with them all, you’re going to finally be happy and free.
You need to start trusting people. Your whole life has been about control. You’ve wanted to be in charge of everything, including your emotions, which is obviously not possible. This year, the most important lesson you have to learn is to let go a bit.
You have to believe that the right person will walk into your life. You have to have faith in destiny and that somehow everything will be alright. Close your eyes and be a believer for once.
You are your own biggest enemy. There are so many things you want to do, things you’re dreaming of, but somehow you manage to screw everything up because you are too insecure. You don’t believe in yourself, so most of the time, you underachieve when you’re capable of doing anything you want.
You need to step up a bit and make a plan for what to do with your life. Do it in steps and solve one step at the time. You can do it, you just need to start. This is the most important lesson you’ll learn this year.
This year, it’s time for great change. Actually, you knew all along that something wasn’t right, you just ignored it. You knew that your relationship is not going anywhere, or that you’re miserable at your job, but you kept those feelings hidden.
Now, it’s time to come to terms with whatever is bothering you and finally find a solution. It’s time to finally do something about whatever is bothering you.
You’ll have to learn this year that you need to embrace the change. It may appear to you that you have it all and that you’re at the place you want to be right now. The catch is, things outside you change and you can’t influence them.
That’s why you need to embrace them and adapt. Don’t freak out and don’t think about what you’re going to do when you’re faced with something unknown. Instead, solve it, then look for another challenge.
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First of all, stop running. You’ve seen everything and you’ve been everywhere. Maybe not physically, but definitely emotionally. It is time for you to realize that everything you’ve been looking for is waiting for you back home.
There are so many choices for you back where you chose to ignore them for whatever reason. You’ve got enough time to find out what you really want. It’s time to start making decisions.
All of us think that our relationship would improve the second our partner changes some things about his behavior. However, is this really always the case?
Are there some things YOU could do to become a better girlfriend and make your relationship work out for the best?
Well, here is exactly what you should start doing differently if you want to achieve this.
The best thing you can do is to take your relationship slowly, instead of rushing it.
Remember that good things take time and you can’t expect to build a perfect relationship overnight.
If you belong to this sign, you need to be aware that a relationship is a two-way street.
This means that sometimes you have to take your partner’s opinion into consideration as well. You two are equals in this union, and your wishes and desires are in no way more important than his.
If you want for it to work out, You’ll have to get your shit together and start taking this relationship a little more seriously.
Not everything is a game and you can’t expect to have a honeymoon phaseforever.
I know you want to keep your relationship as interesting as possible for as long as possible, but it’s time to grow up and realize that just because you’ve lost the butterflies, it doesn’t mean that you don’t love your partner anymore.
When it comes to your mistakes, you’re not doing anything wrong regarding your relationship – you’re making the wrong moves toward yourself.
Instead of putting so much effort into your relationship, start focusing a little more on yourself.
I assure you that by doing this, your partner will consider you way more interesting and he’ll appreciate you more.
Stop being so in love with yourself and stop putting your ego in front of your feelings.
Your pride is important, but it is not more important than your relationship or significant other.
There is nothing humiliating in following your heart and, from time to time, being the first one to call or ask for reconciliation.
If you want to become a better girlfriend, you need to learn to give your partner a break.
Continue being supportive and keep on pushing him forward and believing in him, but don’t expect him to change all of his personality just for you.
Don’t insist on making him perfect and don’t force him to fit into your imaginary standards.
Be clearer about your emotions and, for once, let your guard down.
Even though you two are in a labelled relationship, the truth is that your partner has a hard time figuring you out or realizing where he stands.
Take initiative and show him that he’s important to you as much as you’re important to him.
Stop being so obsessed about your partner going behind your back – by constantly accusing him of something he didn’t do, you’ll just succeed in chasing him away.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying that you should let him play you for a fool or that you shouldn’t listen to your gut, but it’s time to cut him some slack because your behavior won’t lead you anywhere good.
You might not see it, but the truth is that your partner feels emotionally neglected next to you, even though he’s never actually said it.
It’s time you dedicate more of your time and energy to him and show him how much you really care.
Don’t worry, this doesn’t have to mean that you’ll be left without any personal space.
Stop putting your ambitions and goals in front of your partner and give him the place he deserves on your priority list.
Yes, it’s great that your relationship hasn’t killed the spark in you and that you still pursue your dreams, but at least have the decency to include him in them.
Learn to verbalize your emotions.
You’re right in thinking that actions are way more valuable than words, but even men like to hear that they’re loved from time to time.
Pay a compliment to your significant other or use some other way to make him feel important and wanted.
Work on communication. You can’t expect your partner to magically know what’s going inside your head and act accordingly.
Instead, talk to him about everything you need and want, and I assure you, it will be worth it.