Very useful tips that will be useful to everyone in modern relationships that do not exist without correspondence:
1. Stop being available.
You can’t be free all the time. The more he thinks you’re always free for him, the less he’ll text you first, Soulpost writes. Plus, if you text him first all the time, he probably thinks you have time for it. So keep your distance. Don’t start ignoring him right away, but don’t be where he wants you right away. The more he misses you, the more he’ll want to text you first.
2. Give him a reason to write to you.
Why would he text you first? Think about reasons other than the fact that you think he likes you. Have you had interesting conversations together? Does he see something interesting on your page so he can text you about it? The idea is to put something online that he might like. A new interesting experience you had, a photo he might comment on.
3. Determine how much he enjoys texting.
Some men just don’t like texting—not to you or anyone else. Some prefer face-to-face meetings or phone conversations. If he’s trying to get the conversation over with quickly and moves it to a face-to-face meeting, there’s nothing you can do about it.
4. Stop texting him first.
Make him miss you. Stop texting first. You can leave some questions open in the correspondence to intrigue him so that the next day he will text you first.
5. Have fun with him.
Think about it. Why does a guy want to talk to a girl? Because he finds her interesting and fun. So make sure that when you meet, you are having fun and interesting. Make him miss you as soon as you break up, and then his text will not keep you waiting.
6. Give him a reason to remember you.
If you just met, make him remember you. This means you need to make an unforgettable impression. One of the easiest ways is to just be cheerful. Make jokes and laugh at his jokes.
7. Get along with his friends.
Many guys bring their potential girlfriends into their group to see how they fit in with their circle. And you want to fit in. So the better you get along with his friends, the more likely he is to message you himself.
8. Tell him about it directly.
Maybe he doesn’t even realize that it’s a problem for you that he doesn’t text you first. Maybe he waits for your messages, thinking that you’re busier than him, or maybe he’s just used to your activity.
9. Accept that maybe he’s not that interested in you.
Guys who never text first either don’t like texting or don’t like you. If the first option doesn’t work, then take the second one and stop texting him at all. And this can also make him re-evaluate you and text you.
