Here’s How to Tell if He’s the One for You. 4 Body Parts You Should Listen To to Understand If He’s Your Destiny 💟
When it comes to love, we tend to get completely lost in it. We think with our emotions and forget about logic. We don’t listen to our friends’ advice, listening only to our hearts.
We become a bundle of feelings and do not realize reality. It is certainly pleasant to be in the sky, but if you want to build a serious relationship, this is not enough. Here is what you need to do to understand that your destiny is in front of you:
Listen to your stomach
If your gut tells you that things won’t work out with your partner, they probably won’t. Your belly is where you feel the most intense emotions, whether it’s nervous excitement or “flying butterflies.” Science has shown that falling in love is like taking a big dose of cocaine. It provides the same adrenaline rush and pleasure.
Part of the attraction process is closely related to physiological arousal in general and includes increased heart rate, sweating, etc.
Additionally, the “butterflies” in your stomach are merely a response of chemicals—primarily dopamine—that your brain releases when you fall in love. But how do you know if your partner is the One and Only? It’s simple. With true love, you will feel “butterflies” all the time.
Believe your eyes
When we are in love, we experience a euphoria that takes over our hearts and minds. You have probably heard the expression “love is blind,” but is there a scientific basis for this?
According to BBC News, love does indeed blind, or at least blurs the clarity of vision and tricks the brain. As we get closer to a person, the brain switches to assessing their character and personality without feeling the need to analyze their behavior or character. People in love suppress neural activity associated with critical social evaluation of others and negative emotions.
This can easily attract the “wrong” person to you. We may not see the true face of the object of our passion, justifying their bad behavior. Overanalyzing a relationship puts it at risk, but if you let love cloud your judgment, you’ll never see the truth.
Think with your brain and heart in sync.
Listen to your heart, but don’t forget to take into account the voice of reason. They are inextricably linked.
You have to take the time to FEEL with your heart whether your chosen one is good or not. Does his energy make you stronger or break you?
Engage your sense of smell.
There is nothing more pleasant than the smell of a loved one. Even when he is sweating after the gym, you just can’t get enough of him. And there are genetic and biological reasons for this.
A combination of molecules called the major histocompatibility complex (MHC) influences the genetic makeup of our immune system, including our scent. These molecules influence how you smell and how you perceive your scent.
According to a 1995 study, women are attracted to men whose BACs differ from their own. Body odor is an outward manifestation of the immune system, and the scents we find attractive come from people who are most genetically compatible with us. More compatible immune systems mean healthier offspring.
