Listen, I’m not going to pretend to think I’m anything less than I know I am. I’m a good catch and I treat everyone with the same amount of respect. I love my friends more than anything and whomever I date, I give 101% of me.
So, I expect the same from my partner. I don’t like anything half-assed. If you’re dating me, you need to appreciate and value me for the great gal that I am. I promise I’ll make it worthwhile. But if you expect me to wait for you, while you figure out whether you really want me or not, think again.
I’m not waiting for anyone. If you’re having second thoughts about me, by all means, leave. I don’t have time for you. I need someone who, just like me, knows what he wants, and is smart enough to get it, before it’s too late.
You’re either ready to make me a part of your life or you’re not. There is no gray area here. We’re too old to be playing games.
I won’t settle for anything that’s neither here nor there. I don’t have the energy to be wondering whether maybe you’re just too shy or you are actually stringing me along, I want someone who knows when the thing they want is in front of them and they act on it. Not in a week—now. Anything else… I’m not interested.
My time is too valuable for a ‘maybe’. Am I supposed to sit here and pause my life, because there is a possibility that you might realize in the future that you do actually want me? That is BS.
My life is too amazing to be put on pause for a guy who can’t make up his mind.
I’m not going to hope that the situation might change with time for a guy who can’t make a decision to save his life. I’ll pass.
I’m really not that desperate. I have options, you know. Also, I feel like any guy worth my time wouldn’t be wasting it like this; am I right? Why would you be putting me on hold, instead of trying to win me over? Are you really that special? I don’t think so. There’s plenty more fish in the sea and this girl isn’t worried about a thing.
You’re making yourself very clear. You’re not interested enough to make a move and I can take a hint. You’re taking up way too much time and mine is too precious to be wasted like this.
While you’re busy mulling over your options, I have no problem moving on and deleting you from my life. On to the next one.
Love is unequivocal. When you have actual, genuine feelings for someone, you know. There is no room for uncertainty. You don’t go around wondering whether you should keep this woman you love in your life or not. You know. You just do.
If you really had feelings for me, there’d be no room for uncertainty. So I have no problem letting you go, before I grow too attached to an unsure man.
I’m not going to accept being your backup plan. Not today, not ever. I’m not going to be one of four girls you’re casually seeing at the same time and be praying that you end up choosing me. Sorry but that’s just such a waste of time!
Also, you’re really not that cute.
If you come looking for me later, I won’t be available. Even if I’m single then, I won’t be available for you.
You might come to me with some BS story that you just weren’t in the right place at the time and the timing was just not right… But guess what? I don’t care. You HAD your chance and you blew it. You’re the only one to blame for that.
If you really appreciated me and valued me, you would never make me wait while you weighed up your options. That is just ridiculous to think I would ever find it acceptable.
No, it’s not okay. I have other shit to do and unless you’re ready to commit when I give you a chance, you’re not worth my time. Sorry, not sorry!