Being curious about the woman you’re dating and if she is going to be the one is nothing unusual. All of us wonder if we’ve found the right person, especially at the beginning of a relationship.
Because when you’ve just started, everything is perfect. Things are too good to be true and real problems have not yet risen to the surface.
So, when the situation is great, you start getting suspicious. Why is it so great? Is it going to stay like this?
You have millions of questions and you want to be sure about your partner before you go all in and give your heart to them. Naturally, you don’t want to get hurt.
But there is no way of knowing whether you’re going to get hurt or not. There is no magic formula that will calculate your happiness and the success of your relationship.
Sometimes, you just have to take a risk and go with your gut. If your gut is telling you something, go with it and see what happens.
But, to confirm your decision, there are a few signs that can assure you that you’re going in the right direction and that your decision to stay with the woman you love is the right one.
1. She steps up when you need her the most
She is a Wonder Woman. She will show up whenever you need her, you don’t even have to call her or ask her to come and offer you a shoulder to cry on. She is a girl who cares. She is a girl who’ll be there.
She knows that partnership and helping each other is the most important part of every relationship. She knows that sometimes she has to put herself second because you’re more important at that moment. And you’ll do the same for her.
Then, you’ll have a jackpot relationship.
2. She’ll introduce you to everyone
Don’t be surprised if she parades around with you. Don’t take it the wrong way. She is not showing you off like a toy. She is making everyone aware of how proud she is to have you in her life.
You’re her new love who she wants to keep for the rest of her life. She wants you to meet everyone in her life, her family and friends, because she is planning on keeping you. She is planning on taking things to the next level.
3. She makes you laugh
She is the person who can bring even a shy smile to your face on the days when you’re depressed and you don’t feel like doing anything. Her happiness and her positive energy can pull you out of the dark place you’re in.
She can make you laugh with her goofy behavior and cheesy jokes. Even she knows she is not that funny but she tries and that will of hers to make you laugh is something adorable which brings that smile to your face.
4. She brings out the best out in you
Her existence and her influence on you turns you into the person you could only hope to be. You’re satisfied and you’re happy. You don’t sweat the small stuff because you’re not focused on the bad things in your life.
She has changed your negative energy into positive by putting herself out there. She does this on purpose, because she loves you and she wants you to be the best version of yourself.
5. She is honest even if it hurts
You have to taste a bit of tough love. Not all things in life are painted in bright colors. Sometimes, the truth is ugly and you have to face it. By running away from it, you’re only making things worse.
She won’t lie to you because she respects you very much. And where there is respect, there is love. She doesn’t want to make you feel like a fool. So she’ll tell you the truth even if it hurts.
6. She has a life of her own
She is an individual and she doesn’t need anyone to babysit her. She is not needy and she is all you can wish for.
She won’t depend on you because she is used to dealing with her problems on her own. She doesn’t need anyone’s help but if you offer it to help her deal with her problems faster, she will accept it.
But she will never make her problems become yours.
7. She gives you freedom
She will never tell you how to live your life. She is aware of the fact that you lived your life long before she came into the picture. She knows you are responsible and mature and she won’t meddle where she doesn’t belong.
But if you need her, if you want her help or her advice, she will give it to you without judging. She won’t yell or get angry that you made a mistake. She won’t rub it in your face because she knows everyone is entitled to make a mistake. She makes them, too.
The best thing you can do is learn from it and move on.
8. She is true to herself and she wants you to be true to yourself, too
She doesn’t pretend to be something she’s not. She is the way she is and if you can accept her for that, she will be yours. She won’t lie to you and you can be sure that she is going to stay the same.
She won’t try to change you either. She has accepted you for who you are and she loves you, flaws and all. That is what true love is. That is the woman you’ve been waiting for your whole life.