Find the courage to leave when nothing is holding you back.
Sometimes you need to free yourself from old shackles to be honest with yourself. To be happy.
Find the courage to leave when nothing is holding you back!
Paulo Coelho wrote: if you dare to say goodbye, life will reward you with a new hello.
These words never left my mind as I reflected on my life and felt a huge emptiness inside me. I was in pain for so long that it seemed like I would never see the light at the end of this never-ending tunnel.
With some kind of manic stubbornness, I held on to a person who made me unhappy and was very toxic. After all, I believed that I would be able to change him and that our love would overcome all adversity and misunderstandings. It seemed that in just a little while the storm would end and the sun would rise.
I was just afraid to leave. I was scared that I wouldn’t be able to find someone like him. I deceived myself that our relationship was true love. None of this was true. Our love was toxic and deep down I knew that I needed to run away from this man as quickly as possible.
Of course, I understood that if I left, it would be very difficult for me. After all, I invested so much of my love, warmth, time, and energy into him that I simply could not imagine that we would ever part and not be together. In addition, I get very attached to people, which makes the situation even worse.
But I didn’t deserve such a relationship. It was very unfair! I felt unhappy and empty, and my health and well-being deteriorated. All this became the reason that one day I decided to cut him off from me forever and finally stop this agony.
I decided to face my fear, which all this time had paralyzed any attempts to change anything. I internally accepted a life in which he would not be there. Now I am alone, and I can say with all confidence that I have never felt so calm and peaceful. I found happiness, I became self-sufficient.
If you, like me before, feel that nothing is holding you back, leave. Because staying in a relationship that doesn’t satisfy you emotionally is even more painful.
Find the courage and courage to do it. I know you have them, you just need to decide. And under no circumstances come back.
Get away from everyone and everything that no longer means anything to you. Listen to your intuition, it never deceives, suggesting that the time has come to let go of something that has long been gone.
Find the courage to start life from scratch. Set yourself a goal. Find something that makes you happy. And move forward. You will achieve it!
You need to free yourself from old shackles, to be honest with yourself. And trust me, it’s worth it. You will see this soon! After all, everything is very simple. Just find the courage within yourself. Just leave. And just be happy!
