If a woman is not happy in a relationship, then she destroys the man!
When a woman is not happy in a relationship, she destroys the man. And he is glad, I must admit, to shift the responsibility for his life and death onto someone else.
If a woman is not happy in a relationship…
If it’s hard for yourself, then you need to find someone to blame for your sorrows. And, of course, sooner or later he will escape from this. If he has time. He will leave contact altogether or remain partially, hiding in a bottle, tank, work, mistress, illness, or children.
About relationships
This is an escape not from a woman, but from solving problems. This is what all normal infantile people do. They are looking for a bad teacher so they can have an excuse to skip classes. This is a smart move.
Anyone who is committed to life in every sense of the word will not tolerate the saw. Will do his best. And a woman, if she wants to love and not destroy, will not ask for too much. She intuitively reads potential and is an incentive for development.
If a man does not have a firm intention to adapt in relationships and demand his own with the same severity. If you are promised mountains of gold and your mother’s acceptance, be careful. He who gives much will ask much. Check often what you are getting and what is expected of you. And is there joy and harmony there?
All this “since he/she changes me, it means he doesn’t love me” is baby talk and an attempt not to pay in a relationship. We try to remake everything for ourselves. Beds for strawberries, a car seat with the required slope, a curtain on the window so that the light doesn’t hit your eyes, and we even turn water into tea. And that’s great because it’s all about self-care.
The main points of a successful relationship in my opinion: Are how much a person wants to stay in a relationship and his capabilities/limitations. Here either people agree or they don’t. Again, going back to the beginning, what do you want more: to suffer and take revenge or to live happily?
If a woman is not happy in a relationship…
You just have to admit to yourself, girls, that there are different pleasures. Love and sadomaso. The first is equality, respect, and tenderness, and the second is competition and struggle.
“What is better for others? Everyone endures and pretends that everything is ok.” If there is such tunnel thinking, then it is really difficult. But this can also be treated.
These all live very differently. Millions of variations.
What I noted for myself is that success in any business is a balance of tenderness and ruthlessness, love and discipline. Following rules and respecting spontaneity.
For example, when entering a house, we usually take off our outdoor shoes. If you want to go to the toilet, you can sometimes allow yourself to run and get mud on the floor. But if you do this regularly and don’t care about your home, it won’t be very comfortable there.
And one more thing. You have to be able to lose. Leave. To be honest, and not by disguising boots as slippers. If they tell you that you need to take off your shoes at the entrance, check. This charter suits you. If not, then you can try to discuss it. If they don’t cooperate, leave. If they are coming, then come in.
I have a different attitude towards all people. I will go to some of them barefoot. The value there is high. Do you know what determines it? How I feel with a person, how interesting and comfortable I am.
That’s the whole puzzle. In the truth of feelings. If you don’t lie to yourself, then there will be people next to you, rules that will suit you and won’t bother you too much. When there is a desire to maintain a relationship without taking into account your conditions, then sooner or later it will be interrupted anyway. It will become clear to the two of them that masking the shoes is becoming more and more tedious, and the floor is getting dirtier.
Although. There is a point that is not very clear to me. This is when you feel sorry for spending. If you have money, you can drive an expensive car and whine that the prices are crap these days. And here I don’t know. Or you don’t need a car. Well, it’s like being lazy and bending down to a stream to drink. If you’re thirsty, you bend over.
Yes, this is the stage of bargaining; by the way, it can continue for years, although everything was already clear at the threshold. But it was too unpleasant a truth to accept and process. So you see, the meeting would have happened, and not just arguments at the door.
I wish everyone a man to whom you would want to come barefoot, but they will come for you themselves and in a Mercedes.
