Women who are lucky in love. Which women are lucky in love? Beautiful? No, appearance, if we are not talking about extremes, that is, about beauties and women with an ugly appearance, is not as important as psychological characteristics and the degree of emotional maturity.
The main thing, of course, is the quality of relationships in the parental family, in upbringing. A person can change a lot in himself through self-education. What should we strive for, what image should we create?
Based on medical and human experience (mine and others), I tried to determine the qualities that provide a woman with reliable and stable intimate relationships.
In other words, a woman “lucky” in love is characterized by approximately the following features.
Women who are lucky in love:
1. She accepts herself entirely, even if she wants to change something about herself. Her attitude towards herself is based on love and respect, she constantly takes care of this and supports it. She simply values herself and does not seek relationships to maintain self-esteem.
2. She perceives others as they are, without trying to change them or adapt them to her needs.
3. She does not renounce her attitude towards any aspects of life, including sexual feelings, and does not suppress either “Negative” or “positive” emotions.
4. She nurtures and “Nurtures” every facet of herself: her personality, her appearance, her beliefs and values, her interests and achievements.
5. Her self-esteem is high enough that she enjoys being around men who are good just the way they are. She doesn’t need to be needed by anyone to feel like she’s a worthy person.
6. She allows herself to be open and trusting with some people. She is not afraid of people getting to know her deeply, but she also does not allow herself to be exploited by people who are not interested in her well-being.
7. She formulates questions for herself as follows: “How good is this relationship for me? Do they help me grow? Does this relationship allow me to be who I can be?
8. If the relationship brings nothing but trouble. And they destroy her personality, she can say: “Let it be.” He leaves,” and at the same time does not fall into despair.
9. She has a circle of supportive friends, and she has healthy, deep interests in life, which allows her to survive the crisis.
10. She knows how to protect herself, her health, her well-being. She is not attracted by the intense struggle in relationships, drama, or chaos.
11. She knows that stable, growing, healthy relationships exist between partners who have similar values, interests, and goals. Each partner can achieve intimacy. She also knows that she is worthy of the best that life has to offer her.
So, the main thing is not to quarrel with yourself, accept yourself, improve yourself (and not others), and then you will be able to build a harmonious relationship with a man.
