Meeting someone โ or a group of people โ for the first time can feel daunting. A first date can feel more like a job interview and for many of us, first impressions are howย people will think of us for the rest of our lives. We always want to put our best foot forward, but sometimes we trip, stumble, and fall flat on our faces. Other times (perhaps only for the lucky ones), first impressions go totally smoothly! These people are the charmers, the social butterflies, the ones who everyone justย hasย to meet.
While we have some control over the impression we make on others after meeting them for the first time, we canโt always determine how theyโll actually feel about us. Think of it as a game of โTelephone,โ where weโre sending out one message but itโs being received as something totally different. Even guys worry about it, too!
Our dudes may not know what kind of impression theyโre giving off at first blush, because they may not have even thought much about it until now! Fortunately, by looking at their astrological signs, we can educate them on what foot theyโre putting forward โ and ifย itโs the right or wrongย step.
24ย PISCES: Heโs Understanding
Pisces is the most empathetic of the Water signs. He has great intuition, which means he can usually tell what people really mean by the things they say and do, but he also tends to be quite understanding of them as well โ a rare combination. This ability to pick up on othersโ emotions makes him easy to talk to and get along with, because itโs like he already understands what weโre trying to say before weโve even finished our sentence.
As a Water sign, the Pisces guy is adaptable and mutable, able to change to suit the needs of those around him.
23ย PISCES: Heโs A Slacker
Driven by creativity and a lover of all things artistic, the Pisces man can also find himself daydreaming his life away, conjuring up images of a better existence while not actually doing anything to change his real surroundings.
Combined with his love of the arts and his tendency to talk at length about it and how it makes him feel as well as its importance in personal growth, we have the first impression of a total slacker. He’s a guy whose head is in the clouds and he’s frittering his time away. This guy may be a sweetheart, but at first glance, he doesnโt seem like much of a hard worker.
22ย ARIES: Heโs A Doer
Aries is the sign that, without a doubt, will always get stuff done. These dudes can be a little bit rambunctious and are definitely impulsive, but that means they wonโt spend their time waffling between two options, unable to make up their mind. For those who need someone decisive in their lives, Aries is the guy to call.
From the get-go, the Aries man comes across as determined and energetic. He will always get done what needs to be done, he just may not be doing it by the book. But hey, who said doers always had to follow the rules?
21ย ARIES: Heโs Intimidating
With all of their energy and bold personality, Aries men can be a little OTT at times. This guy is brash and loud and for the introverts among us, it can be overwhelming to be in the same room as him. While his take-charge attitude can be a welcome relief in situations that lack a real leader, it can also be daunting.
An Aries manย likes getting his ideas heard, even if itโs at the expense of others. He doesnโt wait around for people to give him permission โ he goes out and takes what he wants. Itโs only once we get to know him that we learn there are more layers to an Aries man.
20ย TAURUS: Heโs In Control
Taurus is often like the patriarch of the family, the dude who enjoys traditions and slowing things down. Heโs never in a rush to do much of anything, but that doesnโt mean heโs leaving thing up to fate.
Perhaps itโs because the Taurus man doesnโt like to stray too far outside of his comfort zone, but this sign prefers to be in control of everything at all times. Upon first meeting him, heโll impress us with his calm, cool, and collected demeanor that puts us at ease immediately. This guy is the opposite of chaos, and is a welcome change of pace.
19ย TAURUS: Heโs Reliable
โReliabilityโ may not seem like the most attractive trait to associate with an astrological sign, but itโs very true in the case of a Taurus man. An Earth sign, this guy has both feet firmly planted on the ground. Heโs always seemed like a bit of an old soul and we feel comforted being in his presence.
This is a dude who will call when he says he will and can be depended on at all times, fromย making Friday night date plans toย being supportive during a crisis.ย Heโs the strong, steady type who wonโt throw us for a loop, and prefers being straightforward to playing games.
18ย GEMINI: Heโs Friendly
Chatty Gemini is the kind of guy who immediately draws a crowd. No, heโs not trying to get the attention, he just has a natural warmth and energy about him that draws people to him! This sign is instantly read as friendly, with a ready smile and a joke in hand.
He loves meeting new people, and being in a crowd doesnโt bother him. In fact, he thrives on it. Heโs the kind of man who will have a congenial conversation with an Uber driver and make pleasant small talk with every member of our family when we bring him home to meet the parents. Heโs just likeable!
17ย GEMINI: Heโs Hard To Read
While Gemini is undeniably about having a good time, upon first meeting him he can also be pretty tough to read. So much of a Geminiโs time is spent trying to learn more about the people around him that we never get to know much about who he is beyond what we see on the surface.
His innate curiosity drives much of his social interactions but he never pauses long enough to answer any questions we may ask of him. Being the sign of the twins, it can feel like weโre only learning about one aspect of the Geminiโs multifaceted personality, which can be intriguing and discouraging all at once.
16ย CANCER: Heโs A Good Listener
Another Water sign who happens to be incredibly intuitive is Cancer. Cancer tends to be a bit moody and melancholy, but that means he kind of loves hearing about our own issues, because it gives him a break from his. He is naturally caring and wants to make things better for others.
A family-minded sign on the astrology chart, Cancer, while remaining tight-lipped about his own problems, appears to provide some kind of calm reassurance to others that makes them want to open up to him. Heโs a good listener, and can often give great advice. (Just donโt use him exclusively for this, because suspicious Cancer will definitely catch on.)
15ย CANCER: Heโs A Bit Of A Crybaby
With all those emotions so close to the surface, is it any wonder that Cancer can be considered a bit of a crybaby? This is the kind of guy who will pine over an ex months or even years after a split, the kind of guy who takes sensitivity to a whole other level and makes everything some traumatic situation. He tends to love the drama of life and love, but that can make him exhausting to deal with.
His sensitivity can be a strength, allowing him to empathize and communicate with others. However, it can transition into narcissistic navel-gazing and a โwoe is meโ mantra that makes the other signs want to avoid him altogether.
14ย LEO: Heโs Confident
A sign that doesnโt really rely on what people think of him, the Leo man comes across as confident immediately upon meeting him. He enjoys being the center of attention, and thatโs not a nice experience for the faint of heart or introverted.
Confidence comes from loving oneself and being comfortable in one’s own skin, and that is the Leo man through and through. He has a strong sense of self, and that influences everything he does and all of his interactions. Being around a confident Leo man can actually make us feel safer, because this is a guy who clearly knows what heโs doing (or at least is good at faking it).
13ย LEO: Heโs Shallow
Since he enjoys being in the spotlight, the Leo guy does tend to be pretty interested in his own self-image. He enjoys the finer things in life and appreciates beauty, but unfortunately this means that he can come across as shallow at first glance.
While the Leo guy does care about looking good, itโs not really because he seeks the approval of others, which is something that can get lost in translation with this Fire sign. The Leo man definitely enjoys showing off, but underneath all that bravado is a sign with more depth than he is often given credit for.
12ย VIRGO: Heโs Shy
Virgo men arenโt usually the ones who demand our attention, and thatโs just how they like it. This guy is much more shy and reserved, and it can take a lot of time and effort to get him to open up. This shyness can be endearing to some, but off-putting to others, who think that the critical Virgo is silently judging them.
In actuality, the Virgo man is just taking everything in. Heโs analytical and pays attention to detail in order to properly respond to the situation and people around him. His shyness is just his way of getting to know people without having to open his mouth before heโs ready.
11ย VIRGO: Heโs Controlling
Known for being critical and extremely picky, even the first impression of a Virgo guy can seem controlling initially. These guys are, more often than not, total neat freaks, and if we ever happen to get an invite to their place, itโll be evident at first glance.
The thing is, the Virgo guy needs things to be tidy in order to have a clear head, but it can come across as controlling and restrictive about every other aspect of their lives. This aspect of their personality usually only comes out in times of high stress or anxiety, so it really depends on the situation in which we first meet the Virgo man.
10ย LIBRA: Heโs Lovable
A total social butterfly, the Libra guy warms the hearts of everyone he comes in contact with and comes across as automatically lovable! Heโs the dude who will go to a party alone and walk out with a bunch of new friends. An expert in all social situations, this guy knows how to smooth out tensions and ease negativity, making him a shining beacon of positive energy.
Since the Libra man never likes to bad-mouth others, he comes across as genuine and kind-hearted, which makes others think that they know him better than perhaps they actually do. This guy is an open book; he just wants everyone to be happy!
9ย LIBRA: Heโs Charming
Arguably the most social astrological sign, the Libra man is a natural-born schmoozer. He knows what buttons to push to make people feel good and at ease around him, and he radiates a kind of charisma that doesnโt come to many other astrological signs.
The Libra guy is all about ensuring everyone around him has a good time, often at the expense of his own comfort. Heโs a giver and he knows how to work people to give them what they want while getting what he wants, too! His charm and affable nature are evident upon first meeting him.
8ย SCORPIO: Heโs Intense
Scorpio men are mysterious โ itโs one of the hallmark traits of this Water sign. That mysteriousness can often seem intense to others, especially those who donโt know them.
The Scorpio guy tends to be quiet, taking in everything around him and surveying his surroundings.ย For many people, this quality can be unnerving, but it is rarely off-putting. Instead, they will feel the need to make a good impression on the Scorpio man, in order to earn his approval and interest.
His intensity is intriguing and encourages people to get to know him better, something this sign only bestows upon a select few.
7ย SCORPIO: Heโs Unimpressed
With the afore-mentioned intensity, Scorpio men can also seem aloof and downright unimpressed when they meet people. They donโt like having to work for someoneโs approval, so they simply donโt bother! Instead, they will put themselves in a power position of not giving away too much, in order to make others work for them.
This guy is an expert at playing hard to get, and that couldnโt be truer when it comes to first impressions. His disinterested demeanor gets others interested in getting to know him, while he barely seems to register that people are totally captivated by him.
6ย SAGITTARIUS: Heโs Fun
Sagittarius guys are all about having fun. They love experiencing new adventures and writing off everything โ even the bad times โ as part of their own personal journey. This guy is always up for a good time, and thatโs noticeable moments after meeting him.
Heโs a free spirit and pretty open-minded, which means that heโs rarely judgmental, so other people around him know that heโs not the type to critique their actions. Laid-back and relaxed, the Sagittarius man enjoys meeting new people, and this enjoyment is clear to everyone who meets him. Heโs a great guy to have around and is always the one to suggest some new crazy idea if things fall into a lull.
5ย SAGITTARIUS: Heโs Standoffish
As a general rule, the Sagittarius man isnโt one who enjoys long-term relationships, or anything that requires more from him than heโs willing to deliver. While he is a very social sign, his mind is often pulled in many directions at once, meaning that his attention span can be a bit lacking. Owing to this, the Sag guy can come across as a bit standoffish at first.
Since heโs used to flying solo on occasion, he may not always jump at the chance to meet others, especially if heโs feeling a little drained. However, the complex nature of his sign is revealed once we get to know him better.
4ย CAPRICORN: Heโs Smart
This sign is one smart cookie! The Capricorn dude can seem like a bit of a know-it-all at first glance, and thatโs because heโs spent so much of his time absorbing all the information he can so that it can be trotted out when he needs to (like, say, during a first date, where he often feels uncomfortable).
This guy crushes it in job interviews but in the romantic arena, he feels a little lost. Relying on his smarts is a way for him to show off without straying too far outside of his comfort zone. Once you get to know this guy, though, heโll reveal that he has a lot more to offer than trivia questions.
3ย CAPRICORN: Heโs Mean
Unfortunately for Capricorn, he can seem mean when you first meet him. The Earth sign is a straightforward one who doesnโt believe in flattery and dishonesty. Heโs been a hard worker all his life and being kind of critical comes with that territory. He enjoys the finer things in life but only because heโs worked his butt off to earn them.
This lends the Capricorn guy an air of snobbery that is evident from the get-go. While he may be a bit judgmental (a quality that has helped him to get ahead), underneath it all the Capricorn guy is a loyal sweetheart.
2ย AQUARIUS: Heโs A Rebel
Heโs the guy who doesnโt play by anyoneโs rules. He lives life in the fast lane and thinks of it all as necessary in order to discover who he truly is. The Aquarius guy is a rebel, a man who moves to the beat of his own drum and doesnโt care if the people around him are comfortable with it.
He needs to be independent, which is why he usually eschews traditional relationships โ or relationships at all. Heโs creative and interested in philosophy but he never lives his life the way heโs โsupposedโ to or expected to โ and thatโs just the way he likes it.
1ย AQUARIUS: Heโs Arrogant
With all that rebellious attitude oozing out of his pores, itโs natural that some people might find the Aquarius guy, well, arrogant. In all of his travels and adventures, he tends to meet a lot of people along the way, and he wonโt hesitate to boast about how cool they are, or how awesome that experience in Bali was. And what, havenโt we jetted off to some tropical destination lately? Ugh.
He might not mean to be a bit of a braggart, but the Aquarius dude sometimes canโt help rubbing his accomplishments and adventures in our face as evidence of his version of โliving life.โ
