8 Things Women Need to Understand About Men Not all romantic relationships work out, and there can be many reasons for this. Women may be more emotionally intelligent than men, but there are certain lessons women never learn about men that then lead to relationship breakdowns. Sometimes women don’t even realize that they are doing certain things that threaten to ruin their relationships.
If men and women could fully understand each other, they would never have difficulties in their relationships. When a couple breaks up, both parties are responsible. Understanding the opposite sex is not easy, but it is something that can be worked on.
These mistakes are ingrained in their habits and don’t seem like mistakes at all. The harsh truth is that these actions are the real reasons that scare men away. If you read our list carefully, you will be surprised to find out how certain actions you have been taking are affecting your relationship.
1. You have to give him space.
I understand you like being with him. But following him around will make you feel claustrophobic. Loving someone doesn’t mean you have to be with them 24/7.
Let him work and have fun on his own. Respect his interests and life. Try to spend time together instead of asking him to meet every day. Give him space. If he loves you, he will come back to you at the end of the day.
2. If he is destined to leave, he will leave.
Face the truth! If a man is meant to leave, he will eventually. You can’t force him to be with you. Constantly telling him not to leave won’t help. Face it and move on.
3. If he wants to cheat, he will do it.
So your man is a cheater. He likes to date other women. How many of his girlfriends are you going to date, and how many times are you going to accuse him? This doesn’t help at all. If a man is a cheater, he cheats and eventually leaves you.
4. Fantasize about the two of you together.
You may like him; you should be amazed by the way he greets you or compliments you. It may even seem like you’ve had sex with each other, and it was a normal thing for him. You should stop fantasizing about the two of you together.
Be practical. If you are not sure about his feelings, ask him directly. If he is not serious about you, he will run away sooner or later.
5. Don’t try to change him.
There may be some things about him that you don’t like, but that doesn’t mean you should change him. What if he tries to do the same for you? Would you want that? Not! Love him the way he is.
6. Don’t try to make him jealous.
This is one of the common mistakes women make. Don’t try to get his attention by making him jealous of your male admirers. You will get his attention, but it will have a negative impact.
If your man is interested in you, he will come to you because of the woman you are, not because others are interested in you.
7. Stop being a drama queen.
Men hate drama. They despise women who create a scene out of nowhere. Stay simple. There is no need to create drama. Give your man peace. You can be emotional, but try to control your emotions. Do not let them go astray and create problems for both of you.
8. Develop self-confidence.
Don’t ask him to tell you how smart, beautiful, or capable you are. Be confident. He will tell you when he wants. Don’t make him feel like he’s just there to compliment you. Men appreciate confident women. Be one of them.
These are some of the things women never learn from men but need to change. Learn from your mistakes. They are not that hard to fix, and they will solve a lot of relationship problems. All the best to you!
