9 things men want from women but will never ask. This article is for all those women who find it difficult to understand what is in the minds of their men. Men are often silent about their feelings because that’s their nature, men tend to expect certain things from their girls and don’t want to ask for it because they think it’s pretty obvious.
This article is for all those women who find it difficult to understand what is in the minds of their men. Some things may seem to lie on the surface, but I would not write about them if people did not forget about them. Let’s start.
9 things men want from women but will never ask:
9. They want respect
All men want respect from their partners, and I am no exception. I consider myself lucky because I never had to ask for this, it’s very sad when you have to ask your significant other for respect. What does it mean to respect a man? It’s very simple. Men need recognition. Recognition of their successes, good deeds, and efforts. Let me use myself as an example, I have achieved success in life because of the support of people, because of the acceptance and feeling of love that I receive, despite my decision, I will always have people who will be proud of my achievements.
My girlfriend is a godsend because she respects me for who I am and there hasn’t been a day that she hasn’t supported me. In front of my friends, she respects me even more. It means the world to me that the love of my life truly respects me for who I am. It’s not that hard, ladies. Be the reason he smiles.
8. Sincere admiration
Admiration and respect go hand in hand. Your man needs nothing more from you than your admiration for everything he does for the two of you. The point here is “REAL” admiration, it cannot be faked. Guys sense false admiration very easily and may tell you to stop faking it, or they may keep silent. Just be sincere, admire everything he does, all the hard work he does for the two of you, and he will be happier than ever. Trust me, it works. She admires who I am and I do the same, no fake admiration. It is not that difficult to achieve complete happiness.
7. Your presence
Presence is the basis of everything, most men just expect you to be there and don’t think it’s necessary to ask for it (I feel the same way in this case). When I have something important going on, like launching a big business project or a significant event, I always want her to be there and it should happen naturally, so I never ask her, but she still comes.
This natural presence is very important. If you have to ask your girlfriend to be with you when it’s important to you, you’re taking all the purity out of it, she SHOULD be there on her initiative. So ladies, give him the presence he needs and get the same or more from him in return.
6. Encouragement
All men want and love encouragement. I will talk about myself now, there is nothing more encouraging to me than her support and how she encourages me to continue to strive for better. They say that behind every successful man there is a woman, it’s true and that’s exactly the case for me. I work hard because she encourages me to never stop believing in myself, she helps me realize my strengths and let my weaknesses disappear. Ladies, believe in your man and encourage and support him with all your might, this will lead you to a better relationship.
5. Real gratitude
Men love gratitude when it comes from the heart. It’s also not too difficult, all you have to do is thank him or smile when he does something for you, when he goes out of his way to make you happy, when he tries hard to make you smile. Gratitude for the smallest gestures is what can make him truly happy about his actions.
When people are not appreciated, they gradually stop trying for you because they feel empty inside. Don’t let this happen to him and appreciate everything he does for you. You will notice that he does even more for you when he sees that you appreciate his efforts because I do the same.
4. His “time with the boys”
Guys don’t ask for personal space because it’s nothing extreme or unusual. If your boyfriend hangs out with friends, you need to understand that it doesn’t make him love you any less. All guys have a code, my friends support my relationship because my girlfriend is very cool with them all, and when I hang out with my boys, she never asks again. This independence also creates a whole new layer of trust that is not easy to develop, it tells a guy that his girlfriend/wife trusts him without a doubt. Give him his “boy time,” ladies.
3. Your unlimited support
Without her support, I would not be here, I would be a doctor (I hated being one), and living a boring, average life. I couldn’t be here without her endless support and I’ve never had to ask for it, she always knows what to say and do to make me feel empowered. Such support, selfless support, is incredibly important for the self-esteem of any man.
I lacked self-confidence and today people look up to me as an example because of what she did to me. Now imagine it’s your boyfriend saying this, don’t you feel good because he’s talking about you like that? What does he thank you for all his successes? He will if you give him true and unlimited support.
2. Recognition
Men usually fill several roles in life and it is very important that you acknowledge everything he does and tries to do. They are sons, brothers, husbands, fathers, and so many different roles and they are very rarely recognized for it.
I acknowledge my girlfriend for every role in her life, and she does the same for me. Ladies, acknowledge your man if you want him to do the same.
1. Desire
Men love to be desired just as much as women, maybe more, but they will never tell you this in their lives. Flirt with him from time to time, a relationship without romance is dead. Tell him how beautiful he is, that you adore him, how much you love him. Men’s self-confidence immediately increases when they know that they are so desired by the women they love.
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