16 things you should do for your husband regularly. And don’t argue. That’s how it should be:
If there is a problem in your relationship, if you have doubts or suspicions, first discuss everything with him. And then it is advisable not to air dirty linen in public.
2. Stand up for him even when he is not around.
If you hear something negative about him, stand up for him and defend him. Show him that your marriage is your strength and unity.
3. Cook something delicious for him.
As Alice in Wonderland said, baked goods make you kind!
4. Don’t see it.
Focus on what he does, not what he doesn’t do.
5. Thank him.
Tell him “thank you” more often for everything he does, even the little things. Show that you appreciate him.
6. Praise him.
Always find something to praise him for. This motivates men a lot.
7. Support his hobbies.
Even if you are not a fan of football or fishing, learn to understand him, just as he probably puts up with your yoga or oriental dancing.
8. Show him that you believe in him.
Nobody is perfect; we all make mistakes sometimes. And if your husband is the main breadwinner in the family, then he feels a lot of responsibility. Find a way to show that you love and believe in him, no matter what.
9. Kiss him passionately.
When he comes home from work, when he leaves for work, or just when you make eye contact at home—I encourage you to do this at least once a day!
10. Compliment him.
Especially when it comes to his masculinity—how strong and brave he is. Find reasons to say it sincerely: be more attentive, and you will find them.
11. Keep the home cozy.
Your home should be a refuge for your husband, where he feels warm and comfortable. Greet him with a smile; make your corner literally comfortable.
12. Love his family.
You don’t have to agree with them or even get along well with them. But you have to respect them and love them as his family, as people who are important to him and who have shaped him.
13. Experiment in bed.
Find out his sexual needs and desires. This is the key to his loyalty to you.
14. Nursing him when he is sick.
Men like to be strong. They are our providers. But when they are sick, they turn into little boys and just want to be cuddled. Let your husband feel like that before he goes back to superhero mode.
15. Cook his favorite dish.
Don’t wait for him to ask—that means he’s been waiting for a long time. Pamper him at your own discretion.
16. Don’t argue with him in front of others, especially your children.
For him, this is humiliation; this is disrespect. Never force children to support one of you. Your problems are your problems alone.
