1. He says: “I love you.”
While it is true that there are men who would say this to get you into bed, they are not the majority, not by any means. Many men have a very difficult time expressing their feelings in words, hence all the signs we need to be able to read. But once he finds the courage to declare his love for you, you can cast all your doubts aside.
2. He is worried.
Another one of the subtle signs that he loves you more than your body is when he cares about you and worries about you. A man who loves you will worry about you when you are sick and will give you his jacket when you are cold; even if it is the middle of winter, he will give you his jacket even if it means he will freeze and get sick. Sometimes they even become overly concerned, which can be annoying, but that is what men do.
3. He asks for your advice
No matter what he wants advice on, whether it’s clothes, a birthday gift for a family member or friend, or whatever, the fact that your man wants to hear your opinion on the matter is a clear indication that he is truly in love with you, that he respects you and what you think, and that you are the most important thing in his life.
4. He understands your needs
It’s part of the whole respect thing, which is a surprisingly large part of true love. If a man is in love with you, he won’t mind your quirks; he’ll get used to them without much trouble. He’ll also be much more attentive to you and what you want than he is to his friends and what they want.
5. He is ready to compromise.
The next subtle sign that he loves you more than your body is when he is willing to compromise. We are all inherently selfish, but when we fall in love, both men and women, we become much more willing to compromise. So, if your guy agrees to go to the movies with you to see a romantic movie rather than the action movie he has been wanting to see, then you know he is very serious about you.
6. He touches you
Men who are just using women do not have the habit of touching a woman outside the bedroom. If he holds your hand, hugs you, and takes every little opportunity to touch any part of you, it means that he loves you outside the bedroom.
7. He always has time for you
Another one of the subtle signs he loves you more than your body is when he makes time for you. It’s all about prioritization. The more important something or someone is to you — or your man — the more likely you are to make time for it, right?
So if he finds time to see you at the end of a busy day, even for a short time, then you can be sure that you are not just a passing fancy.
8. He is a gentleman
Even the roughest, toughest man would magically turn into a knight when he is truly in love with a woman. Holding the door for you, protecting you from rain or snow, and making sure nothing bad happens to you while you are with him—that is what distinguishes a man in love from a flirt.
9. He wants you to meet his family.
A guy who only sees you as a bedroom toy will never even think about taking you to meet his family.
A guy who is serious about you can’t wait to do it. Unless, of course, he distances himself from his parents and siblings. He just wants the important people in his life to get to know each other.
10. You are in his future
Another one of the subtle signs that he loves you more than your body is when he sees you in his future. If a guy is serious about you, he makes you a part of all his plans, and that doesn’t just mean that you’ll be on vacation with him next summer.
You are in his long-term plans, and he is not afraid to tell you this, or at least hint at it. Do you still need more proof that he is in love with you?
