Why are some women only attracted to married men? Is it a coincidence, or is it you? Very interesting read! Have you ever felt like you only attract men who already have a girlfriend or even a wife? In other words, are you always the mistress?
If so, you may be unconsciously sending out signals that only those who are already in relationships with others can pick up. You simply don’t understand what your actions and body language are saying.
So why would a man in a relationship look for another woman?
From my experience with married men and bad boys, I can shed some light on this from the inside. Men in long-term relationships are looking for new emotions and experiences. They still love their woman, but they want something new. They are hunters, and their cave mentality pushes them to find new prey.
But many men are already tamed hunters, especially if their cavewoman completely satisfies them. When there is a ring on the finger and another woman sees it, she should not even try to flirt with this man. Unless he can influence her career or she just wants to drink at his expense. You can continue. But he will not leave his wife.
It is even worse with men who live in a civil marriage because they have no signs of belonging, such as rings.
And psychologically, they have given themselves this freedom because physically, they have no evidence that they are in a relationship. The philosophy of “I’m only busy when she’s around” becomes a mantra.
Have you noticed that when you hang out with friends, not dressed up and without makeup, you attract men more often?
A woman’s need for a man is more than obvious, and if he needs a girl for one night, then you are the first one he will approach. Of course, it is flattering—you get attention and free drinks—but in the end, it becomes bad when you find out that he has a girlfriend/wife.
I have developed my own theory of bad underwear
When you wear ugly underwear, you don’t expect to come home with a new acquaintance. And when you have an aura of “I’m not desperately looking for a man,” you become more attractive and intriguing to the opposite sex. That way, they want you for who you are, not just to sleep with you.
If you have low self-esteem, it shows.
Men know that a woman with low self-esteem is easy to get into bed and has psychological and physical advantages. Such women are an easy target for a one-night stand.
Yes, he enjoys spending time with you. And if he is older, you will make him feel young again. But no matter how good it is for you, you cannot convince him to leave his wife or girlfriend.
Another red flag is when a man keeps saying he’s going to leave his wife. But if there’s no other reason for it than you, it won’t happen. Forget it; walk away.
Sex is also important. If a man is not satisfied with his regular girlfriend, he will look around. But just because he says he is not sleeping with his wife does not mean it is true. You cannot trust a cheater because his actions already speak louder than words.
The description of a mistress is usually the same. A mistress is a sweet, cheerful, and successful girl. It is easy with her while his stress-drinking, non-sexual wife sits at home. When he is with you, he forgets about domestic problems.
But once you find out he has someone else, walk away. What if it was your boyfriend doing this to you? If he cheats on his girlfriend, more than likely he won’t have any problem cheating on you again.
And even if he leaves her for you, somewhere deep in your soul, you should always doubt whether he will do the same to you. And then you will be hurt. Mistresses rarely win.
