Love Advice: Two Rules That Will Change Your Personal Life Forever…
Two rules that will change your love life forever … There are only two rules in sex life that really work. They are good for both men and women. And those who do not know them are doomed to waste time and nerves on the wrong people.
Two rules that will change your personal life:
1. Rule number one. Relationships should be easy.
It should be easy from the very beginning. From the first minutes. A person who you immediately feel like old acquaintances with is more suitable for you than the one you have to court for years. A guy with whom you are ready to retire in a shopping center toilet in fifteen minutes is better than the one to whom you have been writing letters for seven years without an answer.
A girl who immediately shows interest in you is better than an unapproachable beauty who needs to be taken to the Bahamas. Simple means good. Complicated means bad.
This is an axiom. There is no need to prove it. In general, there is no need to prove anything in a relationship at your own expense.
There is no need to achieve anyone, to adapt to anyone and to run after anyone. Having done this once, you will do it every day, and in response you will see only a capricious dissatisfied face.
If things don’t work out right away, don’t catch fire, don’t drag it out. That means he’s not your man. Difficult relationships are only good for those who are bored and have a lot of free time. For everyone else, these sufferings only ruin the nerves.
Don’t carry difficult relationships on your own. Relationships in which you only dance to someone else’s tune are humiliating.
Sooner or later, your patience will run out. Don’t let yourself get drawn into a difficult relationship.
2. Rule two, but no less important. Relationships should bring joy.
This statement also does not need proof. As soon as the relationship has stopped bringing joy and has started bringing nastiness, stop this phenomenon at the root.
Don’t get used to showdowns, tears and breaking dishes. Leave long conversations, reproaches, mutual accusations.
This is not normal! This is the road to hell! As soon as the joy leaves the relationship, it becomes useless. It would seem – what could be simpler.
But many people chew the chewed-over hay of their grievances for years! They occupy their brains with unnecessary showdowns! There is no need to do this!
As soon as you understand that your words are taking away joy – shut your mouth. The showdown begins – leave.
The person only wants to blame and reproach – do not allow them to plant a feeling of guilt in you. Go away!
Relationships are needed for joy. All other relationships “for the sake of children”, “because everyone lives like that”, “out of habit”, “because without her it’s even worse” can simply be taken and thrown into the trash. For me, there are only two main rules. Do you agree with them?
