Love Advice: Please Be Strong Enough To Leave.
As I read it, a sensation of joy surged within me… He was a man with eyes that see the good in the world, hands that bless others, a smile that lights up the street, and a heart that softens even stones.
You love because you have always done so, never holding back. You open yourself up in relationships; you let people in; you give everything of yourself—sometimes to the point of self-destruction. Sometimes, you extend your generosity to those who don’t deserve it. Unfortunately, a person with such a big heart can end up with nothing. Just because you love doesn’t mean you can change people. Sometimes, relationships can lead to heartbreak. You love people who betray you, hurt you, and treat you like you’re worthless. It’s incredibly disheartening when someone ignores you.
Because you love so much, you deserve love back.
Please find the strength to leave a relationship with someone who hurts you physically or emotionally, doesn’t love and respect you, or doesn’t value you.
You deserve better. You deserve respect.
You’re not an afterthought, a midnight texter, a punching bag, or a pit stop before he moves on with his life’s journey.
You are a real adventure.
You are a person who deserves to wake up smiling, to be happy, and to be considered throughout the day, not just when they are bored.
You are not a backup plan; you are not a convenience; you are a decent human being. If you receive such treatment, you must possess the strength to walk away.
Relationships are never easy. They confuse all thoughts and actions. They should bring joy to your life, not take it away.
You should love someone who makes you love life and yourself.
If you love someone who does the opposite, you have to let them go. Don’t hold onto their touch, kiss, or laugh. Because if all of that is overshadowed by bigger, more painful things, whatever laughter and smiles there are will still break your heart.
You need strength to move on, know your worth, and believe in someone who will treat you right. Sometimes your love alone is not enough; you cannot fix a person, and you cannot fix a relationship yourself. And it is not your fault.
Be strong enough to realize you deserve more because you can give it to your loved one. Know that you did everything to save your relationship. But now it’s time to save yourself.
