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If you were wondering how to flirt with a girl properly, you are in the right place.

I will explain all that you need to know to get the girl you want.

All the way from starting a conversation with her to getting her phone number and taking her out.

I know it looks like a mission impossible to flirt with a girl you like so much, but if you just follow some rules, it can really be a piece of cake.

So, let’s get down to it!

How to flirt with a girl

1. Let her know you exist

How To Flirt With A Girl? 10 Methods That Work Like A Charm

You can’t flirt with a girl if she doesn’t know who you are, right? That’s why you need to approach her and start a natural conversation.

If you see that she is not interested in what you are talking about, you can use some sense of humor.

It always helps and it is a good way to break the ice.

When you see that she wants to know more about you, try to keep the conversation going.

Ask her questions so she can see you are interested in her, but also let her talk about herself.

By talking, you two will get to know more about each other and you will create a deeper bond.

Make sure that the first conversation is not too long yet not too short either.

You don’t want her to think that you are pushing things or that you are uninterested.

So, walk away when it is the most interesting because in that way you will leave her hungry for more.

2. Make her smile  

How To Flirt With A Girl? 10 Methods That Work Like A Charm

If you were wondering how to flirt with a girl, I suggest you always make her smile.

Girls simply feel good with guys who make them smile and would always prefer being in their company than with someone who keeps quiet and aloof all the time.

So, if you want to seduce that amazing girl you like so much, make her laugh.

Use some pickup lines and watch her crack a smile because of them. I am sure she will blush every time you say something sweet to her.

I don’t need to say how special she will feel when she sees that you’re making so much effort over her.

Also, using eye contact is what you need to do all the time while you’re making her laugh.

It will let her know that you’re focused on her only and you don’t see anyone else besides her.

Every girl would melt with a guy who does something like this and it is just a matter of time before she accepts to be your girlfriend.

3. Focus on your body language

How To Flirt With A Girl? 10 Methods That Work Like A Charm

The thing is that you can find out about how someone feels by just paying attention to their body language.

That’s why you need to focus on yours.

For example, even if you don’t always have an upright posture when you are talking to the girl you want to seduce, make sure to correct that.

It will give you more confidence and you will feel better in your own skin.

When you talk to her, make sure that you speak in an eloquent way because that will make you more appealing.

While talking to her, look her in the eyes so she knows you are really listening to her.

Whatever you do, don’t use your cellphone while she is telling you something about herself.

It will look rude and she will think you are not interested in her. Use a genuine smile and compliment her because that will make her feel special.

If you manage to do all of this on just one date, you can be positive that you will be the last thing she will be thinking of before she falls asleep that night. Enough said!

4. Tease her

How To Flirt With A Girl? 10 Methods That Work Like A Charm

Is there anything better than good old teasing when trying to seduce a girl? I don’t think so!

So, if you want to flirt with a girl in the right way, always but always make sure that you tease her a bit.

It will frustrate her and make her smile at the same time and you will achieve your goal.

If you do that, she will think you are fun to talk to and she’ll definitely feel some chemistry between the two of you.

But make sure that you don’t behave in the same way with all the other girls because that won’t make her feel special at all.

Let her know that things like that are reserved for her only and that your biggest wish is to make her yours.

Trust me, step by step, she will start approaching you because she will totally become addicted to you.

Your charm and your jokes will become something she can’t live without and, before you know it, she’ll accept to be your better half.

5. Spend more time with her

How To Flirt With A Girl? 10 Methods That Work Like A Charm

If you want to flirt with a girl, you surely need to spend more time with her. You just need to make sure that you don’t cross the line.

Spending too much time with her can make a contra-effect. Be with her, but give her time and space to enjoy her friends and family.

In that way, she will know that you are not suffocating her and that you really care about her.

While being with her, make sure that you make her feel good. Ask her about her life and the things she likes, and talk about yourself as well.

Once you show interest in her, she will realize that you want to be with her.

Also, when she thinks of all those nice gestures you made for her, she will know that you are the one and she doesn’t need to seek anyone else.

6. Compliment her

How To Flirt With A Girl? 10 Methods That Work Like A Charm

But do it if you really mean it. Don’t tell her how amazing she looks every time you see her because that will be too much.

If you see some change in her, let her know that she is beautiful like that. In that way, she will know that you are actually paying attention to her.

Trust me, things like this mean a lot to every girl, especially the one who you are trying to make yours.

You don’t have to compliment her looks only; you can tell her that you feel so nice in her company.

To some girls, it will mean more than paying attention to the way they look.

She will know that you want to be with her not because of the way she looks but because of the way she thinks and acts. And that is the best compliment you can give to any girl, trust me.

7. Touch her “accidentally”

How To Flirt With A Girl? 10 Methods That Work Like A Charm

When you are with her, in the middle of the conversation, touch her like you didn’t mean to.

Physical contact is extremely important in every relationship and it will definitely change the course of yours.

Psychologists claim that people get attached easily to those who touch them.

So, one good way of seducing a girl and flirting with her is to touch her here and there.

It can also give her a sense of belonging and it will surely help you to win her over.

One thing you need to take care of is not to do the same with the other girls because it will mean that you feel the same for all the girls you know.

If you want to make her feel special, pay attention to how you act. I know it takes a lot of effort to do it, but she is definitely worth it.

8. Send her a goodnight text

How To Flirt With A Girl? 10 Methods That Work Like A Charm

A good way to flirt with a girl is to send her a goodnight text.

It will show her that she is the last thing on your mind before going  to bed and she will feel nice because of that.

Also, she can become interested in you and one text can lead to another one.

But whatever you do, don’t text her anything provocative; you don’t want her to think she is just a booty call to you and that you never wanted anything serious with her.

If she decided to take the lead and start sexting, you can accept it, but you should never initiate it.

Instead, you can tell her that you wish she was there and that you can’t wait to see her again.

That will melt her heart and she will feel so pleasant and desirable. And that is all a girl wants from a man, right?

9. Tell her you were thinking of her

How To Flirt With A Girl? 10 Methods That Work Like A Charm

A good way to flirt with a girl is simply being honest and tell her what is lying on your heart.

If you have been thinking about her, let her know.

Trust me, she will be more than happy to know that you are interested in her and that she totally captivated you.

If you tell her how you feel, I am sure she will look at you in a different way and that she will start to fall for you.

No girl can resist a guy who tells her openly how he feels. It is just a sign that he is honest and that he will always wear  his heart on his sleeve.

It tells her that he is sensitive and that she is important to him.

By doing this, you will do her a favor because she won’t have to bother her pretty little head about your feelings.

Instead, she will know all your plans from the start.

10.  Tell her that you want to be with her

How To Flirt With A Girl? 10 Methods That Work Like A Charm

The best way to flirt with a girl successfully is to tell her that you like her and that you would like to be with her.

She will think you are brave and that you really care about her, and I am sure she will give you a chance.

If you click from the start, if you have a great time together, if you can understand each other in all spheres of your life, then you should definitely go for it.

You won’t know how something will turn out if you don’t try it.

The most important thing is that you remain yourself and that you respect your partner.

It can happen that after some time you realize that you are not a good match, but even then, you shouldn’t do anything bad to her.

It is always better to sit down and part as friends than to cheat on each other.

But on the other hand, if things work in your favor, you will be so blessed, since it is really hard to find real love nowadays.

With all those feelings you have for her and a good morning kiss and a smile every day, there is nothing bad that can happen to you.



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