Believe Him When He Shows How Little He Cares

Most of us have had toxic relationships in our life. You know, the ones where you constantly have to wonder if he loves you and if you should forgive him this and that.

Relationships like that are more often than not doomed to fail.

The guy is treating you like crap, but you keep running back to him, hoping he willย change, and the vicious circle continues without anything ever really changing.

 

The thing about guys like that is this: if he is showing you he doesnโ€™t care, thatโ€™s probablyย because he doesnโ€™t.

Respect yourself enough to walk away from anything that makes you question and doubt your relationship on a regular basis.

Guys like that donโ€™t have the balls to tell you to your face that theyโ€™ve lost interest in you, so they show it in various disastrous ways, hoping you will realize it for yourself and leave on your own. In other words, make it easier on him, by ending it yourself.

Donโ€™t delude yourself into thinkingย he might still care.

It sucks to hear it, but if heโ€™s going out of his way to show you he doesnโ€™t care โ€“ย believe him!ย Heโ€™s an asshole for it, but it doesnโ€™t mean you have to put up with it.

If you see him slowly slipping away, donโ€™t try andย chaseย him! ย Heโ€™ll just disappear even faster.

Guys like that donโ€™t have the courage to face their problems, so they just run.ย But donโ€™t run after him. Thatโ€™s not what he wants, and it definitely shouldnโ€™t be what you want either! You know you deserve better.

Why would you want someone who clearly doesnโ€™t give a crap about you and goes out of his way to show it?

Donโ€™t give him the pleasure of keeping you wrapped around his finger. You know, only keeping you near when it suits him and disappearing whenever you need him in return.

 

Guess what? Itโ€™s obvious to everyone around you. Your friends probably see it, too, but they arenโ€™t saying anything because they keep hoping you will see it for yourself

Chances are, your parents are probably aware of it also. If theyโ€™ve been around you two enough, they can see heโ€™s making aย foolย out of you. They are probably hoping they donโ€™t have to be the ones to break it to you.

Youโ€™re tired. You feel emotionally drained. You are so used to giving and giving that you have forgotten what itโ€™s like to have the love reciprocated.

Please, donโ€™t let your need for love overpower the shitty treatment you are receiving from him.

Remember this: the more you are willing to put up with his shit,ย the more he will keep giving it to you.ย Itโ€™s one thing to try and change his ways but itโ€™s a whole another one to keep staying after countless ways he has shown you how little respect he has for you.

Love and relationships should be about mutual love, respect, support and being there for each other.

 

Have you forgotten about that? When you start making excuses for him, just think of the ways in which Iโ€™m sure youโ€™ve been treated right and how much you are sacrificing now. Remember that you KNOW how it feels when itโ€™s right. Now, itโ€™s only a matter of leaving and never looking back.

Leave him before you get used to being treated like shit. Before you start thinking that this is normal behavior in a relationship and settling for it.

You know better than that. Leave, before itโ€™s too late. Believe everything he is telling you with his shitty actions, instead of having the balls to say it to your face.

You donโ€™t need a guy like that in your life. No one does.

So, the next time he shows you how little he cares โ€“ believe him! And run as fast as you can.

 

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