Most of us have had toxic relationships in our life. You know, the ones where you constantly have to wonder if he loves you and if you should forgive him this and that.
Relationships like that are more often than not doomed to fail.
The guy is treating you like crap, but you keep running back to him, hoping he willย change, and the vicious circle continues without anything ever really changing.
The thing about guys like that is this: if he is showing you he doesnโt care, thatโs probablyย because he doesnโt.
Respect yourself enough to walk away from anything that makes you question and doubt your relationship on a regular basis.
Guys like that donโt have the balls to tell you to your face that theyโve lost interest in you, so they show it in various disastrous ways, hoping you will realize it for yourself and leave on your own. In other words, make it easier on him, by ending it yourself.
Donโt delude yourself into thinkingย he might still care.
It sucks to hear it, but if heโs going out of his way to show you he doesnโt care โย believe him!ย Heโs an asshole for it, but it doesnโt mean you have to put up with it.
If you see him slowly slipping away, donโt try andย chaseย him! ย Heโll just disappear even faster.
Guys like that donโt have the courage to face their problems, so they just run.ย But donโt run after him. Thatโs not what he wants, and it definitely shouldnโt be what you want either! You know you deserve better.
Why would you want someone who clearly doesnโt give a crap about you and goes out of his way to show it?
Donโt give him the pleasure of keeping you wrapped around his finger. You know, only keeping you near when it suits him and disappearing whenever you need him in return.
Guess what? Itโs obvious to everyone around you. Your friends probably see it, too, but they arenโt saying anything because they keep hoping you will see it for yourself
Chances are, your parents are probably aware of it also. If theyโve been around you two enough, they can see heโs making aย foolย out of you. They are probably hoping they donโt have to be the ones to break it to you.
Youโre tired. You feel emotionally drained. You are so used to giving and giving that you have forgotten what itโs like to have the love reciprocated.
Please, donโt let your need for love overpower the shitty treatment you are receiving from him.
Remember this: the more you are willing to put up with his shit,ย the more he will keep giving it to you.ย Itโs one thing to try and change his ways but itโs a whole another one to keep staying after countless ways he has shown you how little respect he has for you.
Love and relationships should be about mutual love, respect, support and being there for each other.
Have you forgotten about that? When you start making excuses for him, just think of the ways in which Iโm sure youโve been treated right and how much you are sacrificing now. Remember that you KNOW how it feels when itโs right. Now, itโs only a matter of leaving and never looking back.
Leave him before you get used to being treated like shit. Before you start thinking that this is normal behavior in a relationship and settling for it.
You know better than that. Leave, before itโs too late. Believe everything he is telling you with his shitty actions, instead of having the balls to say it to your face.
You donโt need a guy like that in your life. No one does.
So, the next time he shows you how little he cares โ believe him! And run as fast as you can.
