A Woman You Don’t Love In 2025
A WOMAN YOU DON’T LOVE…Living with a woman you don’t love is much more comfortable, calmer, and easier than with the one you’re passionate about with all the colors of the rainbow.
All the whims of the one you don’t love don’t bother you much.
If she wants cherry juice at night, then you calmly go to the kitchen and pour some mineral water there into a glass with your conscience completely asleep.
When you choose to watch the news on TV behind her back, rather than listening to her story about what happened at work, you don’t feel guilty.
Her complaints barely affect you, so she must take the blame and make peace. After all, it is not the one who is guilty who always seeks reconciliation, but the one whose feelings hurt more. And this, again, only strengthens your position as the “sovereign” in the relationship.
You are not afraid of losing her and immediately become stronger, not depending on your common future. Which again gives you power over a woman, because her freedom is her weapon, the ghost of which easily puts many men at attention.
You are not disappointed.
Her failures, mistakes, and awkwardness don’t bother you much. It’s her life. Of course, if she asks for help, you’ll help. But if she fails her GITIS exams for the third time, you won’t be upset—she’ll pay more attention to the house.
You are not jealous.
If someone shows her signs of attention, then you just coldly observe her behavior, “examining” her morality.
And woe to her if she doesn’t go through it or doesn’t go through it confidently enough—”being”jealous” with a cool head, managing anger is an exquisite art and pleasure. Your relationship is a strange mixture of friendship with your sister and a love affair between a pensioner and a prostitute.
You’re comfortable together, always conversational, and rarely fight. And when it comes to bed, everything is ordinary and calm, though a little utilitarian and occasional.
However, the “infrequency” of intimacy in these situations is only a matter of comfort. There is still no great attraction, and you have long since stopped expecting anything from sex except your dose of purely physiological “high.”.
You can live like this for years.
But sometimes you suddenly get a feeling of meaninglessness and a dead end that squeezes your throat.
Was my entire life truly meant for this?
And looking into her eyes, I want to scream with all my might—stop! What are you doing? Go away; don’t waste your life on me! She’s not worth it. I’m not bad, I’m not evil, I’m not your enemy, but I just don’t love you!
I’m not yours! But there is no horror in her eyes, she does not hear your scream, she believes you. And you are silent. Living with an unloved woman is comfortable and calm. “Love me, love my umbrella!”