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4 Signs He Doesn’t Want To Be With You. Sorry.

Is there anything more frustrating in the world than a guy who can’t decide whether he likes you or not? One moment he’s interested, the next he’s not… Girls, today we’re going to help you sort out this difficult question.

Here are 4 signs he doesn’t want to be with you!

Relationships can be quite complicated, especially when you have doubts. You know exactly when someone likes you; it feels like it. The same can be said about those situations when you cause antipathy in someone; it is visible, and you don’t even have to talk about it. But what if the guy is in an uncertain situation when he does not know how he feels about you? This is more difficult. If he is not sure how he feels about you, then how can you know about it?

So, you’re confused. He just sent you the cutest text message, or you just had the sweetest phone conversation with him, but a few days later you don’t know where he is or what he’s doing. He just disappears. And he tries to convince you that he cares. But then he somehow acts like you don’t matter to him. You know he’s interested in you, and you try to justify his behavior. The truth is, he’s trying to play games with you.

It’s simple; there’s nothing in between. Either he likes you or he doesn’t. These five signs indicate that his behavior means he doesn’t want to be with you.

He’s not very interested in your life.

When a man gives you his full attention, you can be sure that he wants to know everything about you. But if he is not interested at all, ask yourself, Is it good? Even if he never asks anything about your life, you try to tell him about it yourself. But suddenly you realize that he is not listening; he is not registered with this.

Understand that if someone likes you, they will be interested in learning more about you. They will want to know details about you and will listen very carefully. So, being interested in you means that you are not indifferent to this person.

He tells little about himself.

This is another sign that he doesn’t like you. If he doesn’t tell you anything about himself after you’ve opened up to him, if you see him closing himself off from you, then you probably need to give up. You’ve opened up to him and are ready to be with him, and he’s only giving you the bare minimum of information, like where he’s from or where he went to school, and that’s it. He just doesn’t see the point; that’s what immediately comes to mind in this situation.

You expected him to open up, but he couldn’t. Maybe he just doesn’t need you?

You wait too long for him to ask you out on a date.

If a guy waits too long after your last date to ask you out again, think about it. You can wait for days, and he will only call you if you are his only option. Is that okay with you?

When a guy likes you, he will ask you out on another date as soon as possible. He will tell you that he likes you and is happy to see you again.  Another important thing is that between these two dates, he will keep in touch with you.  He will send you a simple text to say “hi” or something that will make you laugh because if he is interested in you, he is thinking about you.

If you don’t get any texts or calls between dates, it means he’s not as interested in having something more with you than what you have now.

He always has excuses.

There is nothing that could stop him from seeing you if he is interested in you. But if it is the other way around, then something like this will happen. He will not apologize for being busy; he is not in the mood to go somewhere; he has unexpected things to do; or he is simply tired after work. 

A man won’t leave you for another guy just because he’s too busy to see you.  A guy can clearly show you that he doesn’t consider you a priority. The main thing is to read it correctly. If you wait for days for him to call you, although he promised to call the next day, then he is not the one for you.

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