How a Man Knows He’s Found “The One,” According to a Guy.
We can never know for sure that we’ve found that special person we’re meant to be with forever, but most men have a feeling when we’re with “The One.” If you’re interested in seeing things from a man’s perspective, let me pull back the curtain and show you how men know they’ve truly found their special someone.
How a man knows he’s found “the one”
1. Everything seems different or new
I think you know what I mean. When you’re with the right person, even boring and repetitive things seem new and exciting. That’s a good sign he’s found his woman.
It could be a movie we’ve seen 100 times or a place we visit all the time. If being with someone feels like a new and different experience, she could very well be “The One.”
2. She can read his mind.
Most guys don’t want to marry a psychic or a fortune teller, but that’s not what this is about; it’s about how well she understands you. When a woman knows us so well that it seems like she can read our minds, it’s just amazing. It’s like there’s a special connection between us.
Even if she doesn’t finish my sentences, it’s obvious that she understands how I think and what drives me. I’m starting to think that she might be someone special to me.
3. He does everything to spend time with her.
Some guys are willing to do crazy things for the women they love. It tends to be reckless when it comes to the one you love. Things we never thought we would enjoy suddenly become fun because we are doing them for her and with her.
Of course, the specifics vary from one guy to another, but if he is happy to do things or go to places that he used to hate or has never seen before, he knows the woman with him is special.
4. He is ready to compromise.
How does a man know when he has found his sweetheart? I don’t have to tell you ladies that most guys are selfish and strong-willed. But when that starts to change, we begin to realize that we may have found our sweetheart. It’s not easy to get a guy to put other people’s needs and desires above his own. If a woman is going to make him do that, she must be his keeper.
5. Starts thinking about the future
Most guys don’t spend much time thinking about the future, at least when it comes to marriage and family. But if we can imagine what life might be like with someone in the future, it’s clear that she’s not just another girlfriend.
These thoughts usually only pop into our heads if we think we are with the right person. Believe me when I say that it is not just like that.
6. He is comfortable with HER friends or family
It is not always the case that your boyfriend will get along with your friends and family. He will not necessarily have a good relationship with your loved ones, but if he sees you as his soulmate, he will make more of an effort to get along with the people close to you. When he starts feeling comfortable with them, he begins to realize that this can last forever.
7. Her shortcomings don’t matter.
Look, no one is perfect—that’s a fact. Even if you think otherwise, it doesn’t matter.
Because when a guy doesn’t notice a woman’s flaws or doesn’t care that they exist, it’s a good sign that she might be the one for him. It means that we complement each other well, and that’s the most important thing.
8. He wonders if he is good enough.
Few things can make a guy feel more insecure than the thought that we have found his special someone. You think it is a happy time, right? Instead, we suddenly start worrying about being good enough for you. Even the most confident guys sometimes feel nervous that they are not worthy of the girl of their dreams.
We tend to have irrational fears of ruining a relationship. Oddly enough, paralyzing anxiety and self-doubt can be a sign of love. Strange, right?
9. He tries to become better.
In the same vein, most men will try to become better when they think they have found the right woman. After all, now we have to prove that we are good enough. We can try to get rid of a bad habit, switch to a healthier diet, or start exercising.
We could even try to improve our professional lives and start building a career. The funny thing is that we don’t always realize that we are doing it for her sake!
10. We are compatible in THIS way
How does a man know he’s found the one? No, sex isn’t everything, but it does mean something. No guy will think he’s found the one if things aren’t going well with her in the bedroom. Honestly, we don’t assume someone is our soulmate just because we had “the best sex of our lives” with her. But it’s a plus and a big one. If we seem perfectly compatible, it’s much easier to believe that she’s the one and only. That she’s the one who’s meant to be with us.
