6 Signs Your Man Is Losing Interest In You—In His Own Words!
I think one of the things that makes relationships so difficult is that feelings can be fleeting. We all know what it’s like to be crazy about someone at first, but how do you keep those feelings from fading over time? I don’t think I can answer that. However, I can help you identify when it’s happening so you don’t get your hopes up for a guy who’s losing his feelings for you.
6 Signs Your Man Is Losing Interest In You.
1. He stopped making plans
Honestly, it could be laziness or a sign that he no longer feels the need to impress you. However, if it’s entirely up to you to plan dates or ways to spend time together, his interest could be waning.
The same is true if he only has vague ideas and no clear desire to do anything. If he is interested in you, he will have specific ideas about places he wants to take you or things he wants to do with you. Sometimes a lack of imagination can signal a lack of interest.
2. He has nothing but excuses
Of course, it’s one thing for a guy to stop making plans to spend time together, but it’s another thing when he offers lame excuses for why he can’t make time for you.
Let’s be clear: there’s a difference between a legitimate reason and a lame excuse for why he can’t communicate. When he tries too hard to justify his lame excuses, it’s a good indicator that he didn’t have a good reason that kept him from doing what he should have done, but he didn’t want to. He’s just not interested in spending time with you.
3. He calls you “friend.”
This could be a very subtle sign that he doesn’t see you as a romantic partner, or at least anything more than just a friend.
Even if he didn’t do it on purpose, a Freudian slip can be a pretty good indication of his true feelings. He wouldn’t call you a friend anyway if he had strong feelings for you and wanted you to misunderstand.
4. He lacks “fire” with you
Sure, guys can lie, but their eyes and the sound of their voices don’t lie. You should be able to tell when he’s not excited to meet you or talk to you.
Of course, you shouldn’t overreact to a single incident. Sometimes people are in a bad mood, and it has nothing to do with you. But if the lack of joy or happiness around you becomes a regular occurrence, his interest may wane.
5. He gets into pointless fights
When a guy loses interest in you, he no longer cares about you. Subconsciously, he may start fighting to push you away. It is also a sign that he cares more about how you feel about him because he no longer cares about making you happy. He wouldn’t do that if he was still as interested in you as he was at the beginning of the relationship.
6. In a relationship, there is either s+x or there isn’t.
In the end, it all comes back to s+x. However, it can be difficult to determine a guy’s interest in you based on HIM alone. If he’s not interested in s+x, he may have some kind of physical ailment, which is something you might want to check (if possible).
Honestly, there are many reasons why he might not be interested in sleeping with you. On the other hand, he might have lost interest in you if the relationship is nothing more than s+x. He might have decided that he likes sleeping with you, but nothing more. And then it makes sense that he won’t have any other feelings for you. And it’s worth noting that even if he’s not interested in you, he might sleep with you for as long as possible until you realize that the relationship is not going anywhere.
