Love is hard, as are relationships, especially with all these dating trends such as ghosting and love bombing. And to top it off, there are some really bad types of men you should avoid like the plague, because they will make your life a living hell.
Even as youโre reading this now, someone popped into your head and you can remember the hell he put you through. Iโm sure that you even know more types of men to add to this list but these are the worst of the worst.
1. Freshly out of a relationship
These men are never ready to fully commit to you and give you what you need and thatโs a steady and healthy relationship. Heโs too stuck in the past to look to the future. Maybe heโs just using you as aย rebound girlย or he tried to hide the fact that he just got out of a relationship, which is even worse.
Heโs not honest with you from the very beginning and you canโt expect a healthy relationship if it was built on dishonest foundations.
The worst thing he can do to you is lead you on until you fall in love madly and deeply, and just when you think that youโre getting there, heโs not ready to move on. Heโs not ready for another serious relationship and the moment he realizes it, he will ghost you.
2. Unambitious men
Men who have no ambitions will always hold you back. Theyโre perfectly fine with being stuck in one place, doing nothing and living from day to day. You canโt expect a future with that kind of man because heโs not interested in working for it.
And even if you try to motivate him, youโll just end up losing your own motivation. Thereโs nothing less attractive than men with no ambitions, especially these days where you need to put in one hell of an effort to make your life good.
3. Men with anger issues
One moment heโs fine, the next all hell breaks loose. Men with anger issues will hide this for as long as they can but you can actually see the signs of this. If something isnโt done his way, he gets all nervous, pissed and he shuts down completely.
Heโs not interested in talking about it, heโs not interested in looking for a solution. And trust me, the only thing heโs interested in is screaming and punching something. If you ever come across this type of man, run for your life, because who can say that one day you wonโt be the one he punches?
4. Workaholics
Unlike unambitious men, they are all about work, success and putting in huge amounts of effort. But what happens when you need him to slow down and just to enjoy the moment with you?
For him, work is the only priority in his life. He can tell you that itโs not like that but when you need him, heโs at work. When heโs late to dinner, you know heโs at work. When he leaves you hanging, you know he did it because of work.
And you canโt expect him to make you and his relationship with you his priority, because work is the only love of his life that heโs willing to make sacrifices for.
5. Possessive men
These are the men who act likeย emotional leeches. Because of their possessiveness, they slowly take away everything you care about. When you want to spend time with your friends, he guilt-trips you into staying with him.
When you need to see your family, he either goes along or makes you stay home once again. Theyโre good at manipulating and getting what they want, which is you. And he practically has no life of his own, so he takes away yours as well.
He will act all clingy and needy, while justifying it with being so in love with you that he canโt think about anything or anyone else.
