What is the thing about you that causes most of your relationships to end? What is your biggest relationship deal breaker and number one break-up reason?
You might not know it, but the answer to these questions lies in the zodiac you belong to.
When it comes to romantic relationships, your biggest problem is definitely your constant desire for excitement. Even though butterflies are awesome, you need to understand that the honeymoon phase of the relationship can’t last forever.
However, you are a zodiac sign which gets bored easily, and as soon as you get into a routine, you are looking for a way out. What you need to be aware of is that a real, mature relationship isn’t always fun and games, and you can’t expect it to be.
If you belong to this zodiac sign, you are probably a guarded person who hates showing your vulnerabilities and weak sides to anyone, including your romantic partner. Therefore, you have a habit of escaping the relationship as soon as things become serious enough for you to have to expose your true self.
All of this is a sign that you are scared of getting hurt, and that is perfectly natural. Nevertheless, remember that some people are worth taking the chance.
Geminis can’t stick to one place for a long time and the same goes for the people around them. You like to be around someone who intrigues and challenges you, and that is why the initial stage of the relationship is the thing you enjoy the most. But as soon as you’ve read through the other person, you lose interest in them and are subconsciously looking for your new victim and someone else to capture your attention.
The main reason you usually break your relationships off is the fact that the other person can’t seem to give you back all the love they’ve been getting from you. You are simply an emotional person, and you can’t accept that not everyone is like you.
Even though you should never settle for unrequited love, have in mind that people demonstrate their feelings in different ways and forms. Try not to flee the moment you feel not loved enough, and for once, give someone a chance to show their affection for you.
If you belong to this zodiac sign, you are someone who can’t stand being wrong. Whenever your other half calls you out on something or criticizes you in any way possible, you turn it into a huge fight, instead of considering their arguments. Remember that a healthy relationship is based on compromise and that things can’t always be your way, no matter how right you think you are.
Your biggest problem doesn’t occur at the end of the relationship, it actually happens in the very beginning, even though this is something you are probably unaware of. When you are choosing a partner, you usually fall in love with their potential and the person they could become if they let you do your magic on them.
As soon as the other person sees that you are trying to change them, they rebel. Or you see that you’ve misjudged them and that you can’t make them become the person you wanted them to be.
Either way, your relationships usually end due to your desire for perfectionism. There is nothing wrong in striving to always be the best possible version of yourself, but you also have to let others be, even if those others are your romantic partners.
You are someone who never settles for less than you deserve, and this is one of your best qualities. Nevertheless, it is also something that might cost you the people you care for.
Don’t get me wrong. I am not advising you to lower your standards for anyone. I am just asking you to understand that you probably won’t be able to find someone who perfectly fits your image of the right person. Because this is exactly your biggest break-up reason—you leave, the moment you see the smallest thing you don’t like about your partner.
If you belong to this zodiac sign, you have trouble with forgiving and forgetting the harm you’ve been done. Even when you try to forgive to your partner, you hold onto grudges forever, and eventually, this ruins your relationship. Although I am not saying that you should allow the other person to treat you the way they want, for once, try giving a second chance, and see where it takes you.
It’s simple. You are afraid of commitment even though you don’t seem that way. The beginnings of your relationships are always great, but the second things start to get a little more serious, you are the one who ends things or the one who unconsciously causes things to end.
I assume that this is the last thing you want to hear, but your number one break-up reason is that you are too picky. You have incredibly high expectations of your partners, and the moment they fail to achieve them, you break all ties.
Not wanting to settle for less is something you should never do, but for once, try giving someone who you consider below your league a chance. You might be positively surprised.
If you belong to this zodiac sign, you have trouble with emotionally attaching yourself to the other person, which usually makes your partner feel emotionally neglected. This is exactly what causes most of your relationships to end. The next time you meet someone special, just remember that being overly careful about the ones you let in can sometimes backfire on you.
For Pisces, the biggest break-up reason usually has little to do with their current relationship. Instead, you have a habit of carrying a lot of emotional baggage from your past which impacts both your present and future.
Deep down, you are convinced that everyone is just like your ex, and as soon as you see any trace of their behavior in your current partner, you run for your life. If this is something you want to avoid, make sure you are truly done with whatever emotional burdens you might carry with yourself before entering a new relationship, and you’ll be fine.