All of you who have experienced painful heartbreak more than one time, all of you who have put a lot of effort and tears into the wrong people only to get nothing in return, all of you who were disappointed in love in one way or another, you recognize love in only one shape and that is suffering.
All of this emotional pain has made you much stronger. But it has also destroyed all your faith in love, the concept of a soulmate, and dreams about the kind of love worth fighting for. You gave up on any hope that you’d find true love, that your better half was somewhere out there.
And you stopped believing that true love existed. Even if it did, it wasn’t something worth waiting for and definitely not something worth fighting for. I know you gave up…
You were giving your heart to all the wrong people for as long as you can remember and you’d just had enough of it. You had enough of heartbreaks and disappointments, enough of shattered hopes and dreams.
So you started seeing love as something unrealistic and unattainable, and you reconciled yourself to the fact that you were not meant to experience it even though all of your best friends seemed to have already found their significant other. They were already in a happy relationship or in a happy marriage, but still you decided to observe love from a safe, long distance.
You lost all hope that there existed your forever person as well, someone who would love you unconditionally, so you decided to find happiness outside of love.
And it doesn’t mean you feel miserable because of this; you’ve embraced your single life, and you’ve learned to live without love. You decided to push yourself forward without waiting for the right guy to come along. You invested all of your time and energy exclusively in yourself.
And this doesn’t mean that you’re selfish. It only means that your life experiences, relationship issues, and relationship problems taught you that there is no one you can rely on. So, you decided to be your own support and life partner.
And although loving yourself and taking care of yourself are two of the best things you could have ever done, I’m here to tell you that true love will come when you least expect it. And I’m here to tell you not to give up on it when it comes. Instead, fight for it!
Because true love is worth fighting for! And it does exist, despite everything you’ve been told and despite everything you’ve lived through. (I know you don’t believe it now, but you’ll see it when it happens to you.)
True love will be worth every sleepless night you’ve spent wondering when you will find happiness. It will be worth all the battles you led with all those wrong guys and all the fights you had with yourself.
Because true love will make you feel stronger than ever!
It will make you feel like you’re unstoppable and that you can do anything you’ve set your mind to. You will feel like you can move all the mountains in this world with your little finger because with the right person by your side, everything will seem possible and achievable for the rest of your life.
The whole world becomes a better place of vast opportunities, chances, hopes, and dreams because true love motivates you to notice all the little things that matter and to fight for all the things worth fighting for. True love will inspire you to become the best version of yourself, and it will help you create the best stories of your book called Life.
True love will make you want to be a better person!
When you finally find the man/woman of your dreams, they won’t have the desire to change you. Instead, they will accept you for who you really are, with all of your flaws and imperfections because true love recognizes and awakens true value in human beings.
The love this man/woman will give you and the love you will feel for them will change you for good, whether you like it or not. It will make you a more positive, loving person who will always look on the brighter side of life.
It will improve your life in its every aspect—your mental health, your physical health. It will cleanse your soul from all the past toxicity that has accumulated through all this time.
True love will keep reminding you that from now on, you’ll never be the only one fighting for your relationship because true love is reciprocal, giving, and understanding. Love worth fighting for recognizes only mutual effort, mutual trust, and mutual happiness.
True love will restore your faith in all of humanity!
When you finally experience true love in a relationship, you’ll start seeing the good in everyone you encounter, and that is why true love is worth fighting for. You’ll start enjoying all those little things you were missing out on.
You will start noticing all of those beautiful flowers that you’ve been somehow missing all this time. You will start seeing the good in everyone. The sky will look brighter, and your hope in humanity will be restored. Love worth fighting for will give you special glasses specifically designed to see beauty in everything and everyone around you.
True love will delete everything negative that you’ve acquired over time, and it will replace it with understanding, compassion, and patience. True love will show you that the world is not supposed to be observed in black and white, but in lavish colors and shades that you didn’t even know existed.
And most importantly, true love will restore your faith in yourself.
When the right person comes along, they will make you feel like you are the only woman/man in the world. They will heal all the wounds all those wrong guys/girls inflicted, and they will show you your true worth.
They will be there for you when you cry, smile, when you’re vulnerable, and even when you don’t want anyone near you. They will show you the true beauty of your tears, smiles, and the beauty of your being.
They will remind you that you’re only human and that you’re an amazing human because you never gave up on love no matter how hard it was to keep believing in it, let alone keep fighting for it. They will help you see your true strength, boldness, and endless potential.
And the moment you see and truly feel real love, you’ll forget about all those heartbreaks you’ve been through. You’ll understand why all the guys/girls from your past were wrong and why it wasn’t meant to be with any of them.
And suddenly, everything will make sense. You’ll see that everything you went through in life and everything that has happened to you has been leading you to this moment. And for the first time ever, you’ll see everything crystal clear.
You’ll see why it was all worth it!
So, please, don’t give up on love just yet. Instead of running away from it, embrace it, and allow it to enter your life. And when true love comes into your life, give it a chance.
Instead of fighting love, start fighting for it. Fight for love worth fighting for with everything you have. Hold on to it and never let it go. Because trust me—it will be worth it.