12 Main mistakes women make in relationships that ruin EVERYTHING!
Despite your age and the stage of the relationship you are in, many women make the same mistakes that ruin their relationship with a man.
Here are 12 of the most common ones, and if you can fix them, then you will notice that your relationship changes for the better.
1. You get angry when he looks at or talks to another woman.
His gaze can involuntarily, instinctively fall on any beautiful woman (and you are the same). And if you are overly jealous when he even just talks to one of his female friends or colleagues, then the problem is most likely with you. You are either insecure or have trust issues in relationships.
2. You don’t respect his personal space.
If he is in a bad mood and doesn’t want to talk, leave him alone. Most men, unlike women, do not like to talk about their problems – they solve them themselves, and this, I must admit, is very masculine.
3. You forget to take care of yourself.
It’s just a shame to watch how some women, after marriage, stop keeping themselves in shape or shaving their legs. You must win your man every day, and not stop there.
4. You forget about your personal life: your friends, and your interests.
A man doesn’t want him to be the only one in your life. A man wants to see a holistic personality in his world, in which there is a place for him.
5. You are passive-aggressive.
Men are more straightforward, and if you tell him that everything is fine and nothing happened, and then stare at him waiting for him to finally get the truth out of you, you will only provoke anger and reluctance to solve the problem. Be honest and say directly what is bothering you.
6. You nag him.
The ideal man does not exist, no one can give you everything you want and how you want it. There will be times when you will not be happy with what he does. But you shouldn’t nag him for it.
Just say what you would like him to do: “I like it when you do this,” instead of “Why do you always do it wrong?”
7. You don’t appreciate him.
Again, stop looking at what he doesn’t do and start noticing what he does and appreciate him for it. The more you show that you appreciate him, the more he will try to surprise you.
8. You are always not in the mood.
Everyone has bad days, that’s understandable. But it’s in your best interest to try to be positive. Nobody wants to be around the “Sulky Cat”. People in general are drawn to those who exude happiness and positive energy.
Wake up smiling, be grateful, and find the good in your life and relationships.
9. You take your insecurities onto him.
It’s not his fault that you feel fat, that you have a pimple, or that you have a wrinkle around your mouth, or that you are afraid that he will leave you. These are your problems, uncertainty, and shortcomings. Don’t make them problems in your relationship.
If he’s with you, it means he likes you. Don’t focus on your shortcomings. Maybe he doesn’t want to notice them, so why point a finger at them? Men are attracted to confident women.
10. You are trying to change him.
When you start dating, you accept the person for who they are, not for who you want them to be. Take it or leave it.
If the changes concern small things – for example, you would like to adjust his style, then do it gently. Don’t criticize or make a fool of him.
Just say: “You look so sexy in this suit, but it would be even better if…”.
11. He doesn’t feel your love.
Everyone needs something different for this. For women – a bouquet, romantic gestures. For men, this could be food, compliments, or a massage at the end of a hard day at work.
Pay attention to what makes him feel loved and do it.
12. You rush things.
Not only can this scare him away, but it will also deprive you of the opportunity to take a closer look at the person and understand whether he is the one you need.
