The sobering truth about men. Possibly very unpleasant!
Understand one simple thing: if a man likes you, he will show it to you in every possible way. And believe me, even a man who is very modest by nature will still decide to talk to you and get to know you if you fall into his soul. But everything else is just your excuses for his behavior when he simply doesn’t like you.
Unfortunately, men don’t always tell us the truth and what they think. But if you still want to know this truth, it is not so difficult. But be prepared that this truth may not always be pleasant for you. But what can you do? I think it’s still better to have the bitter truth than to live in constant deception with noodles in your ears.
The sobering truth about men.
- “No clarity” means “no common future”
- If he likes you, he will let you know about it. Everything else is just your excuses for his behavior.
- If a man tells you “I don’t want a serious relationship right now,” this means “I don’t want this relationship with you”
1. “No clarity” means “no common future”
This is the truth about men! If you have been dating for some time, but your man still cannot say who you are to each other and immediately changes the topic of conversation as soon as you want to talk about it, it means that he simply does not see you in his future and for him this relationship is just an opportunity to have a good time, nothing more.
Yes, he likes you, but not enough to connect his life with you. Understand this and move on.
2. If he likes you, he will let you know about it. Everything else is just your excuses for his behavior.
If he doesn’t call you for a long time and doesn’t let you know about himself in any way, no, this doesn’t mean that he’s very busy or is just taking so long to gather his thoughts. It means he just doesn’t like you enough.
If he offends you or is rude and rude, his character is not so courageous, straightforward, and tough. This means that he simply does not respect you because he doesn’t need you.
If he blames you for everything and finds fault with every little thing, this does not mean that he is just so demanding and wants to make you even better. This means that he does not accept or love you for who you are.
If he doesn’t give compliments and you can’t get flowers from him, this doesn’t mean that he just doesn’t throw words into the wind and doesn’t like to waste money.
This means that in his understanding, you are not so important and valuable to him that he would spend anything else on you, and it does not matter – emotionally or financially. After all, even a very stingy and selfish man will remember flowers and say nice words to you, because he simply cannot help but do this if he likes you.
Understand one simple thing: if a man likes you, he will show it to you in every possible way. And believe me, even a man who is very modest by nature will still decide to talk to you and get to know you if you fall into his soul. But everything else is just your excuses for his behavior when he simply doesn’t like you.
3. If a man tells you “I don’t want a serious relationship right now,” this means “I don’t want this relationship with you.”
If a man tells you that he is not ready for a serious relationship now, because “there is a crisis in the country”, “I am still too young for this”, “I need to get on my feet first”, etc., then this means that you he’s just not the woman for whom he’s willing to take on such responsibility. Yes, it’s sad and painful to realize, but it’s a fact.
After all, if he really understood that you are the very woman he has been looking for for so long, then not only would he want a relationship with you, but he would also think about how to do this so that you yourself would definitely not be anywhere from him share.
Therefore, do not even doubt that if he says that he does not want any relationship, then it is so. There is no need to live under the illusion that he will change his mind and you will convince him. Better not waste your time and take care of yourself.
