Relationship Advice: If A Woman Is Not Happy In A Relationship, Then She Destroys The Man!
If a woman is not happy in a relationship, she destroys a man!
When a woman is not happy in a relationship, she destroys a man. And he is happy, it must be admitted, to shift responsibility for his life and death onto someone else.
If a woman is not happy in a relationship…
It’s hard for him, then he needs to find someone to blame for his troubles. And, of course, sooner or later he will run away from this. If he has time. He will leave contact completely or remain partially, hiding in a bottle, tank, work, a mistress, illness, or children.
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This is not an escape from a woman, but from solving problems. This is what all normal infantile people do. They look for a bad teacher to have an excuse to skip classes. This is a clever move.
The one who is set to life in all senses of the word will not tolerate a saw. Will do everything possible. And a woman, if she wants to love and not destroy, will not ask for more. She intuitively reads the potential and is an incentive for development.
If a man has no firm intention to adapt to a relationship and demands his own with the same strictness, If you are promised mountains of gold and motherly acceptance, be careful. He who gives a lot will ask a lot. Check more often what you receive and what is expected of you. And is there joy and harmony there?
All this “since he/she is changing me, it means he/she doesn’t love me” is childish babble and an attempt to avoid paying in a relationship. We try to change everything to suit ourselves. Strawberry beds, a car seat with the right angle, a curtain on the window so that the light doesn’t hit our eyes, and we even change water into tea. And this is wonderful because all this is about taking care of ourselves.
In my opinion, the main points of a successful relationship are how much a person wants to stay in the relationship and his capabilities and limitations. Here, either people get along or they don’t. Again, going back to the beginning, what do you want more: to suffer and take revenge or to live happily?
If a woman is not happy in a relationship…
You just have to admit to yourself, girls, that there are different pleasures. Love and Sadomaso. The first is equality, respect, and tenderness, and the second is competition and struggle.
“And what’s better for others? Everyone endures and pretends that everything is ok.” If you have such tunnel vision, then it’s really difficult. But this can be cured.
These all live very differently. Millions of variations.
What I have noted for myself is that success in any endeavor is a balance of tenderness and ruthlessness, love and discipline. Following the rules and respecting spontaneity.
For example, when entering a house, we usually take off our outdoor shoes. If you want to go to the toilet, you can sometimes allow yourself to run and splash the floor with dirt. But if you do this regularly and don’t care about your home, it won’t be very cozy there.
And another point. You need to be able to lose. To leave. Honestly, and not disguising your shoes as slippers. If they tell you that you have to take off your shoes already in the entryway, check. Does this regulation suit you? If not, you can try to discuss it. If they don’t accommodate you, leave. If they accommodate you, come in.
I have different attitudes towards all people. I will go barefoot to some. The value there is high. Do you know what it is determined by? How I feel with a person, how interesting and comfortable I am with this.
That’s the whole puzzle. In the truth of feelings. If you don’t lie to yourself, then there will be people next to you whose rules will suit you and won’t bother you too much. When there is a desire to maintain a relationship without taking into account your state, then sooner or later it will end anyway. It will become clear to both that it is becoming more and more tiring to disguise your shoes, and the floor is becoming dirtier.
Although. There is a point that I don’t quite understand. This is when it’s pity to spend. If you have money, you can drive an expensive car and whine about how crazy the prices are these days. And here I don’t know. Or you don’t need a car. Well, it’s like being too lazy to bend down to a stream to drink. If you want to drink, you bend down.
Yes, this is the bargaining stage; by the way, it can go on for years, although everything was clear at the threshold. But it was too unpleasant a truth to accept and process. So, look, the meeting would have happened, and not just arguments at the door.
I wish everyone a man to whom you would want to come barefoot, but they will come for you themselves and in a Mercedes.
