Relationship Advice: Why Men Love Older Women: 10 Reasons…
Why Men Love Adult Women: 10 Reasons. The average age of women in all sorts of “tops” in men’s magazines is 25-30 years. So what attracts men to adult women?
Men have a deep affection for adult women. This does not mean that they secretly swoon and melt over pre-retirement ladies; it’s just that men’s views on female attractiveness are somewhat different from women’s ideas about these views.
True, pop culture has created a cult of youth and beauty in our minds, and we are accustomed to thinking that the ideal woman for men is a blonde nymphet with an invitingly half-open mouth, large breasts, a thin waist, and legs “from the ears.” But in reality, men are not attracted to such specimens (they are secretly shy in front of them), but to adult women with established views, capable of understanding and sharing their interests. By the way, the average age of women included in all sorts of “tops” in men’s magazines is 25-30 years.
So what attracts men to older women?
#10: They value their independence.
Surprisingly, men love adult women, including for their independence—in every sense. They are not offended if a man does not call during the day or does not invite them to meet with friends. They do not need to be entertained and play the unpleasant role of a nanny in front of them. They have already had serious long-term relationships, and they know that a man needs freedom, and next to him a man wants to see not an obsessive hysteric who watches his every step, but a free woman who has her own captivating life.
#9: They are confident.
Adult women often have a clearer understanding of their aspirations and needs. Therefore, they boldly let a man know if they are interested in his attention and are not inclined to play tedious games, sometimes bringing a man closer to them, sometimes moving him away. If a twenty-year-old girl can drive a man crazy with her coquetry, pretending to be either untouchable or a femme fatale, a thirty-five-year-old woman is unlikely to waste her time and the man’s time and will directly declare her feelings—or lack thereof. Men greatly appreciate such directness and honesty, especially in women.
No. 8. There is something to talk about with them.
Many men will agree: what could be worse than inviting a lovely girl on a date and spending the whole evening in the company of a monster who spends an hour dedicating you to the plot twists of “Dom-2” and then tells you about how he bought a handbag on sale—and all this without stopping chewing and not letting the man get a word in edgewise? Meanwhile, an intriguing conversation excites men no less than some parts of the female body. And women who know how to keep up a conversation are much less common than sexy beauties with model parameters. Unfortunately, young girls rarely have this gift, often due to a lack of experience and knowledge and not at all because of stupidity. In addition, most girls talk mostly about themselves and do not know how to listen at all. Can you imagine what Ronnie Wood can talk about with his young lover Katya Ivanova? We can hardly.
Why are older women the best conversationalists? It’s very simple—they are older, more experienced, have seen, experienced, and know more. They can tell captivating stories from their own lives and help with advice. Do not underestimate the ability to be an engaging conversationalist; even when the initial passion disappears, conversations will help maintain close relationships.
No. 7. They provide for themselves.
Men appreciate it when a woman is able to provide for herself. And this speaks not only to how selfish and stingy men are. They are simply pragmatic. Therefore, it is not surprising that mature, established women, who have established careers and stable incomes, tend to be more prosperous than girls who are just beginning their career journey. Of course, having a high-paying job is far from the main thing that can interest a man in a woman, but ultimately it also plays a role. The fact is that next to a successful woman, a man does not have to strain himself and constantly not think about the fact that he needs to pay for her always and everywhere. Few men are ready to support “future models” or “future actresses” who use them as a springboard for their—often unfounded—ambitions.
6. They know how to be friends.
Young women often exist in “packs”—they” communicate so closely with their girlfriends that a man, when dating them, is forced to constantly share them with numerous girlfriends. They call each other non-stop, exchange text messages, and hang out all day on social networking sites, in LiveJournals and chats, where they often report all the details of their personal lives. To become a “boyfriend” of such a girl, a man will have to get the approval of all her friends. In addition, she will coordinate her every step with her friends, so a man will have to try hard to convince her of anything, and this is very tiring.
Mature women are less dependent on the opinions of their friends and loved ones. They are able to make their own decisions and do not seek approval from their friends. They do not call their friends to find out what dress to wear on a date with you or what to cook for dinner. They are confident and self-sufficient. They understand that “friendship” is not a discussion of the latest episode of “Lost,” but helps in difficult times. They do not waste time on empty chatter and meaningless relationships. They have already experienced disappointment and betrayal of friends, youthful enthusiastic “friendships,” and now their phone book contains only the numbers of close, trusted friends.
#5: They know how to have a wonderful time.
It is more fascinating to spend time with older women. Why? They have more refined taste and diverse interests. Simply put, they love and know how to have fun “like adults” and not get drunk to the point of unconsciousness in a nightclub to spend the rest of the evening hugging a toilet. They will not disappear on the dance floor all evening and do a striptease at the pole to deafening music. They have already successfully passed this “wild” phase and no longer want to constantly be the center of attention. They are able to enjoy jazz, love going to the theater, and are not embarrassed to introduce them to friends and relatives.
#4 They are less emotional.
The excessive emotionality of young girls is understandable—they have so many “first times” that they simply do not know how to react to this or that event. First love, first betrayal, first treason—their emotional outbursts and scandals are completely justified. In addition, they always tend to overdramatize events—if a man does not call the next day after a date, her heart will be broken! Due to their emotional immaturity and unpredictability, they attach special meaning and significance to the most harmless things. When dating a young girl, a man should always be prepared for the fact that a crisis can break out at any moment, and his every word or action can cause an unexpected reaction in the girl. And since very few men manage to remain calm during a crisis, it is impossible to continue such a relationship for a long time.
Mature women have learned to value their nerves and do not throw tantrums because a man stared at an unfamiliar girl. They maintain composure even in a critical situation, know how to solve problems, including problems in relationships, and do not involve men in their troubles.
#3 They are more experienced in bed and love sex.
If you ask men what they like most about mature women, most will say without hesitation: sexual liberation. Mature women are wonderful lovers. It is a fact. They are self-confident, not shy about their bodies and their desires, liberated, and ready to experiment. Moreover, they know how to please Aman and even prolong it. It is never boring in bed with them.
#2 They have more experience in serious relationships.
Mature women know how to avoid the “pitfalls” in relationships, and if problems cannot be avoided, they are ready to compromise and find a solution acceptable to both parties. Again, because they have more experience, including in serious relationships. In addition, women do not have illusions and do not make unrealistic plans. They do not believe in the fairy tale about the handsome prince and are ready to put up with the shortcomings of their partner, so it is easier to build long-term relationships with them.
#1 They value the time you spend together.
Unlike girls who often don’t take relationships seriously and don’t appreciate the man next to them, a mature woman knows how to be grateful for what her friend does for her. She won’t take a man’s attention and care for granted.
A clear understanding of true values allows adult women to value the time they spend with their partner more. In addition, they will not play with a man’s feelings to satisfy their own ego. Perhaps this is what men value most in adult women…
