The sobering truth about men. Possibly very unpleasant!
Understand one simple thing: if a man likes you, he will demonstrate it to you in every possible way. And believe me, even a very modest man by nature will still decide to talk to you and get to know you if you touch his soul. But everything else is just your excuses for his behavior when he simply does not like you.
Unfortunately, men don’t always tell us the truth and what they think. But if you still want to know this truth, it’s not that difficult. But be prepared that this truth may not always be pleasant for you. But what can you do? I think it’s better to have the bitter truth than to live in constant deception and with noodles on your ears.
The sobering truth about men.
- “No clarity” means “no common future.”
- If he likes you, he’ll let you know. Everything else is just your excuse for his behavior.
- If a man tells you, “I don’t want a serious relationship right now,” it means, “I don’t want this relationship with you specifically.”
1. “No clarity” means “no common future.”
This is true about men! If you have been dating for some time, but your man still can’t say who you are to each other and immediately changes the subject of the conversation as soon as you want to talk about it, it means that he simply does not see you in his future, and for him, this relationship is just an opportunity to have a good time, nothing more.
Yes, he likes you, but not enough to commit his life to you. Understand this and move on.
2. If he likes you, he’ll let you know. Everything else is just your excuses for his behavior.
If he doesn’t call you for a long time and doesn’t let you know about himself in any way—no, it doesn’t mean that he’s very busy or that it’s just taking him so long to collect his thoughts. It means that he just doesn’t like you enough.
If he offends you, is rude and boorish—it is not his character that is so courageous, straightforward, and tough. It means that he simply does not respect you because he does not need you.
If he blames you for everything and finds fault with every little thing, it doesn’t mean that he is just so demanding and wants to make you even better. It means that he doesn’t accept and doesn’t love you as you are.
If he doesn’t give you compliments and you can’t expect flowers from him, it doesn’t mean that he just doesn’t throw words to the wind and doesn’t like to throw money around.
This means that in his understanding, you are not so important and valuable to him that he would spend money on you in any way, and it does not matter—emotionally or materially. After all, even a very stingy and selfish man will remember about flowers and will say nice words to you, because he simply cannot help but do this if he really likes you.
Understand one simple thing: if a man likes you, he will demonstrate it to you in every possible way. And believe me, even a very modest man by nature will still decide to talk to you and get to know you if you have sunk into his soul. But everything else is just your excuses for his behavior when he simply doesn’t like you.
3. If a man tells you, “I don’t want a serious relationship right now,” it means, “I don’t want this relationship with you specifically.”
If a man tells you that he is not ready for a serious relationship right now because of “the crisis in the country,” “I’m still too young for this,” “I need to get on my feet first,” etc., then this means that you are simply not the woman for whom he is ready to take on such responsibility. Yes, it is sad and painful to realize, but it is a fact.
After all, if he really understood that you are the woman he has been looking for for so long, then he would not only want a relationship with you, but he would also think about how to make it so that you yourself would definitely never leave him.
So don’t even doubt it; if he says he doesn’t want any relationship, then that’s how it is. Don’t live in illusions that he’ll change his mind and you’ll convince him. It’s better not to waste your time and take care of yourself.
