Relationship Advice: 7 Things Women Obsess Over That Men Don’t Care About
Women tend to overthink and obsess over certain things. Especially when it comes to men and relationships. But in reality, it’s often pointless. Here are just a few things that women worry about a lot, but for men, it’s not that important.
1. excess weight.
It’s no secret that almost every woman dreams of losing weight—some more, some less. Of course, there are men who don’t like plump women at all. But most men aren’t going to complain if you’re 5-10 kilos heavier than you’d like—especially if you’re already together. The main thing is how you present yourself, how confident you feel in your body, and don’t complain about it.
2. To paint or not to paint.
Unless you wear heavy, bright makeup, most men don’t notice it or not. They like the natural look. If he doesn’t like your natural look, he’s not the one for you.
3. Invite him on a date.
For many women, this is a man’s prerogative. They are afraid to invite him themselves. However, if he doesn’t notice you, there’s nothing wrong with initiating the first move yourself. He won’t think “anything like that,” he will only be pleasantly surprised.
4. Who writes to whom first?
It doesn’t matter. It’s not a sign that he likes you or doesn’t like you. If you’re genuinely curious about what he’s doing right now, text him instead of worrying and wondering what it means if he doesn’t text you.
5. What do you order for dinner?
Many girls don’t know what the “right” thing to choose for dinner on a date with a guy is. But unless it’s the most expensive thing on the menu that he has to pay for, he won’t care. He won’t judge you or think you’re fat if you order a dessert.
6. What men think about.
Don’t ask, “What are you thinking about?” unless you’re ready to hear the answer. He might be thinking about pretty boring things, like work or football. Men are simpler.
7. Your boyfriend wants to do something without you.
Everyone needs time for themselves. And if they need it, it doesn’t mean they’re pulling away, cheating on you, or wanting to leave you. They just want to relax, be alone, or with friends.
