How to Make Him Want You Desperately and Passionately. Advice from a Man!
When it comes to making a guy want you, it’s usually not as hard as you think. As a guy, I would recommend keeping it simple and not overthinking it. There are a few things that all of you ladies can do to make the guy you like or are dating want you even more. These are the tricks we’ll be talking about today.
How to make him want you desperately and passionately.
1. Be carefree
Simply put, if you act like you don’t care, guys will want you. Some guys like to be chased because they want attention, but that doesn’t make them want to be with you. Acting carefree makes it seem like you don’t need a guy to be happy. This makes a guy want to win you over because he’ll enjoy the challenge. Some guys will also be jealous of your laid-back attitude, which helps make you an interesting person.
2. Show off your intelligence
Many of you ladies like smart guys, right? Well, this applies to both genders. Many guys are interested in smart women. This is especially true for guys who are a little simple and dumb. For some reason, they crave to be around women who are smarter than them. If you come across as smart and well-read, guys are more likely to want you and think that you could have a future together.
3. Laugh a lot
Guys love to hear women laugh. This is especially true if we think we are the reason you are laughing. Well, as long as you are laughing with us, not at us.
Making a woman laugh is a huge ego booster, which makes us want to be around you so you can continue to feed our egos with your laughter. So if you make a guy think he’s funny, he’ll start to feel a lot better around you.
4. Surprise him
Few things can make a guy want you more than being able to keep him on his toes. Of course, intimate surprises are always welcome, but small gifts and last-second plans can work too. If you can remain a little unpredictable, a guy will never lose interest in you and will continue to want you desperately.
5. Change your appearance
Speaking of surprises, changing your hair color or wardrobe can be a great way to get a guy’s attention. This is especially true for long-term relationships, where things can get a little stale.
The trick is to do something that will be obvious the moment a guy looks at you. He may not notice your new haircut, but a change in hair color will not go unnoticed. This will make you seem spontaneous, new, and different, which is always the key to getting a guy to want you.
6. Intrigue him
This is another good idea for couples. Sure, it’s a bit of a game, but it’s a well-thought-out one. When you tell him about your day, leave out the important details, just tell him the bare minimum. Tell him enough to get his attention, and then wait for him to ask for more. This is a good way to keep him interested, so he wants to figure you out.
7. Remind him why he fell in love with you
If your relationship is progressing, make your boyfriend remember why he liked you. Of course, you know why your boyfriend was attracted to you in the first place, right?
Well, find a way to remind him of that. It could be the clothes you wore on your first date or even something you did to him. Sometimes that’s all it takes to make a guy want you like he used to.
8. Keep your distance
It’s simple geography: a guy can’t want you if you’re always around. That doesn’t mean you should disappear completely. That will confuse him. You just have to avoid being too pushy in your communication.
Make sure to live your life and be unavailable to him sometimes. Trust me, your absence will make his heart ache a little. If you can make a guy miss you, you can make him want you.
9. Be confident in yourself
I can’t say enough about the importance of confidence. A guy will want you desperately if you think he should want you. Show him that you’re comfortable with who you are and that you’re confident that any guy would be lucky to have you. If you think you’re special, a guy will believe it too.
10. Be active
How to make him want you? Well, it works in two ways. First, don’t be afraid to initiate sex sometimes. It doesn’t have to be all the time, but at least sometimes. This will show the guy that you want him, and he, in turn, will want you more.
Second, don’t be afraid to take control in bed. This may include experimenting with new things. If you never let a guy settle into a routine, he’ll never know what to expect next, and he’ll never stop wanting you.
