He doesn’t want a perfect woman. He wants these 3 things from you! Have you ever thought about how much time you spend trying to be the kind of woman you think he wants? Chances are a lot. But the thing is, he doesn’t want a perfect woman. He wants these 3 things from you!
First, your appearance: the goal is to be sexy and attractive at all times.
Second, your character: be simple, cheerful, sociable, and interesting. The main thing is not to be intrusive.
But there is something crazy in this process… You spend so much time and effort to make him see how wonderful you are for him… How incredible his future will be if he chooses you…
And does it work? No.
He doesn’t want the perfect woman. He wants these 3 things from you!
But why? How? How can you try so hard for nothing? How can he take you for granted? Did he even notice you? Is it just immaturity? He doesn’t see how good you are until he loses you. Or… never gets you…
Because you do all the work for him.
He will only value a relationship if he has to work hard for it.
Here’s a fact: Men want to put in the effort to get something. That’s the only way they’ll value it in their lives.
Even if you are perfect, but you were given to him without effort, he will not appreciate you. Yes, you need to be hard to get, but here is the problem:
What happens once he gets you? The chase is over. The drive is gone. It’s like a giant “Game over” sign goes up for him. And he’s not interested anymore. Until the next game.
But how do you stop it?! How do you make sure you’re his main target forever?
Not just in the beginning.
This Is a Problem for ALL Women (And Here’s Why They Need Help)
Many women give up on love. Because they have had their hearts broken too many times. They stop trying to get closer to men. And if they do, they fall head over heels in love. They become very loving and caring. They are ready to do anything for him. They make time for him when he asks. And even when he doesn’t.
But in doing all this, they take away something important from a man. And by doing so, they push him away…
They take away his purpose. And his purpose is to be your hero.
Men dream about it since childhood, subconsciously. And every hero has a girlfriend. And if he can’t save the world, then at least he wants a girlfriend who needs a hero.
To win a girl’s heart, you need heroic charm, confidence, and perseverance in the face of difficulties and pain. It’s a worthy challenge for only the best men. But first, he needs that special girl who needs a hero.
Are you like that?
Oh, no. You’re independent. You’re strong. You can do everything yourself. You don’t need anyone. You can give a lot yourself. Right? You’re honest, kind, caring, sincere, and loving. What man wouldn’t want to experience all of that?
But where is he? He’s nowhere near. And how would a hero appear in your life if you’re already dealing with everything on your own? You don’t get heroes. You get egotists. The ones who show up, make you do this and that to them, break your heart, and leave.
But here are 3 ways to attract a hero into your life:
1. Ask a man for help.
Anything: check your computer; get a can from a high shelf at the store. And when he helps, smile at him and say, “Thank you.” Slowly, gently, kindly, so he’ll notice.
2. Enjoy male company.
Let him be a man and appreciate that about him. Guys like that. Does his apartment have a lot of sports stuff? So what? Does his kitchen look dirty? That’s not a crime. Can he talk about cars for hours? Well. He’s a man. You’re a woman. That’s how you complete each other.
3. Let him earn your respect.
Great heroes love a challenge. So don’t be fooled if he just opens the door for you or gives you a ride home. Don’t give him your love for nothing. Make him work for it. And he wants to work for it.
It is important for a man that a woman needs only him, that she enjoys his company, and that she respects the person he tries so hard to be.
That’s all a man needs.
But you tried to be the woman with the best body. The one who would do anything for him. The one who would love him no matter what. And he doesn’t need that. He needs a woman who will make him her hero.
