3 Signs He’s Playing With You. Stop dating him!
He’s attractive and charming. He knows exactly what you want to hear. And he knows how to make your heart beat faster. But he never actually follows through. If you’re dating a player, you’ll always know it. You just have to look for the signs!
I could use the word “chased” here, as many people do, but the point is that a highly evolved,-high-vibrational man will never chase a woman. Chasing a woman is something that someone who does not feel worthy of a great woman. Chasing is a lack of abundance; think about the terms we use with chasing.
When we pursue someone, it means that this someone is better than us. He is the object of our attention. We pursue our dreams; it means that we are ready to do everything to make them come true. The same thing is in relationships; a man can be in love with a woman and turn his attention to winning her over. But there is another type of man, love does not play such a role for them; they play with you for their benefit and pleasure. It’s all quite simple.
So, let’s talk about three things that will tell you that the man you’re dating is playing you.
3 Signs He’s Playing With You!
1. Date with promises.
Men who play know exactly what to say. A man who plays with a woman knows exactly what she wants to hear on a first date.
He will tell you how evolved he is. If you are a spiritual girl and do yoga. Or if you are someone who works hard on yourself. He will tell you about his spiritual path. About how he healed his inner child. He will tell you straight up that he is looking for a partner with high spiritual vibrations, with whom he can share life and be open.
This type of man will tell you straight up what is perfect for you. Without being too modest, he will draw your attention to his merits. He will tell you about all the work he has done to become who he is. So date number one can be memorable.
2. He doesn’t care what you are like.
A man who is truly your energy partner will allow you to show yourself because he wants to see the real you. He doesn’t want to play with you, tease you, or mislead you. It’s important to him that you open up to him and trust him.
But the man who plays with you has other goals. Any conversation you have eventually becomes more sexual. His desires and motives are clear, but women don’t always want to understand them.
He engages you in dirty talk and messaging of this nature. He may do this subconsciously if he is a really good player. If he is a mediocre player, he may immediately move on to more rude communication.
You see, such a man, as soon as he feels that he has you on an emotional level, will try to seduce you as quickly as possible. For him, it is a sporting interest.
A person who cares about you wants to get to know you more; he may care less about s+x. He treats you with more respect and will not rush you.
3. He loses interest in you
He will fall in your eyes. He will become less sociable than at the beginning of your acquaintance, and all because he has either already received from you what he wanted or he is not able to get it. He may be tired of the fact that events are not developing at the proper speed.
Let’s say you’ve been on two dates, he feels like he can sleep with you, or you’ve already made the mistake of giving yourself to him too quickly. He’ll start disappearing more often because the player enjoys the initial pursuit of his prey. Once that wears off, his passion will slowly fade.
It’s wonderful to be able to spin a web of seduction on an unsuspecting woman. He gets such a thrill out of watching you go crazy so fast. Whether you sleep with him or not, he’s still playing with you.
So what happens after that? As he gets his ego gratified, he usually starts to disappear from your life. Suddenly he disappears for four or five days, when before you were seeing each other, at his initiative, every single day. He disappears because he is on to the next emotional, egoistic, or physical conquest. After all, that is what amuses him.
So think about it next time you’re with someone and pay attention to these warning signs. I hope this article helps you read men better. Good luck!
