12 Things That Are Guaranteed To Turn Men Off You!
We don’t pretend to know everything about women, but we do know that there are a lot of things that can turn men off. Even if a guy is physically attracted to you, you can still completely turn him off with your behavior. Here are some things that can ruin your chances with him.
12 Things That Are Guaranteed To Turn Men Off You
Lie
We think this is universal when it comes to things that bother people about potential partners. I mean, no one likes a liar, right? You may think you’re telling harmless little lies, but men are still bothered. The worst part is when it’s obvious you’re lying, but you keep doing it. Honesty is the best policy, especially when it comes to successful relationships.
Pretense
Pretending goes hand in hand with lying. For the record, we’re not saying men don’t do it too, but there are so many things women can fake, from their photos to their masks.
Guys hate it when women pretend to be someone else. Just be yourself because you are so amazing.
Constant calls
It doesn’t even need to be mentioned at this point, but there are still women who spend way too much time on their phones while dating. Particularly if the relationship is just starting, you should focus on getting to know each other better. It’s a total bummer for a guy if he can’t get a woman’s attention because she’s so engrossed in her phone.
Social Media Overkill
Despite the fact that social media has some advantages, most guys find women who use it excessively to be unattractive. Also, most guys hate it when you think that everything you post on social media is true.
Selfie
It’s annoying for a guy when he’s with someone who won’t stop taking selfies. It’s as bad as constantly talking on the phone or social media. If you’re on a date, you should be enjoying each other’s company, not posing for a thousand photos. When that’s all a woman wants, it’s annoying.
Not showing appreciation
Just like you ladies, men love to be appreciated. They love compliments and appreciation too. Most men put in the effort and would like to have that effort recognized.
Constantly saying bad words to someone
Come on, girls, you’re not in high school anymore. There’s no reason to talk trash about other women, your friends, women your man has dated in the past, or anyone else. Honestly, it’s a pretty small percentage of women who do this. But when all you want to do is put down and gossip about others, it doesn’t make for good conversation and it just doesn’t look good.
Overdrinking
Alcohol can help people relax and have a good time. Frankly, it’s hard to imagine the early stages of dating without it. But there’s a fine line between having fun and getting too drunk. The latter makes men feel like they’re taking care of children, and that’s not a good thing.
Paying attention to other guys
This is taboo. And it doesn’t need to be explained. If you’re on a date with a guy, you don’t need to look at all the men passing by, much less comment on their appearance. Imagine, men have egos too.
Lack of responsibility
We can’t stress enough how attracted men are to confident women. It’s such a turn-on when it’s clear that a woman is happy with herself and self-sufficient. Of course, the opposite is also true; when it’s clear that a woman is insecure, it’s easy for a guy to lose interest.
Obsession
Yes, it’s nice to be around someone and be a part of their life, but people are not the sun and you are not a planet that revolves around us. Being too clingy is one of the best ways to turn a man off. Most guys just can’t handle a woman being too clingy; they don’t like it.
Jealousy
Jealousy is terrible, no matter the gender of the jealous person. It is natural to feel it in a relationship, but we need to do our best to mature and overcome it. When women show jealousy, it means a lack of trust, which is a good way to push a man away.
These were 12 things that are guaranteed to turn men off of you. Share your opinion on this in the comments.
