You’re enamored with your new boyfriend, who appears to be the perfect fit for you. But even if everything seems perfect, there are some things that every woman does when she’s in a new relationship but would never admit to her lover.
#1 “Forgetting” things at his place
Did you accidentally leave your toothbrush in the bathroom, and did you forget your new favorite shirt at your sweetheart’s? Well, the scented candles on his bedside table create a romantic atmosphere, and he can also use the three-meter-long blanket in bed! Especially in the early stages of a relationship, women seek to establish their boundaries, and what better way to do so than to gradually hand over their household goods to their partner?
#2: Stalking his ex
Although his last relationship was a long time ago and he no longer has any contact with his ex-girlfriend, you first look for information about your ex: Facebook, Xing, Google—you are now well informed and convinced that you are prettier, more successful, smarter and, of course, much better for your loved one.
#3 Stalk him
Women are real masters of stalking. Not only is his last relationship being taken apart, but his entire past is being examined in detail. Who is the woman who likes all of his photos? Who was he with on holiday? And why does he still have old photos of his ex on his computer?
#4 Dreaming of a shared future
You are firmly convinced that he is the big catch. In your mind, you can already see yourself standing at the altar; you have already decided on the name for your first child and you would move in with him lock, stock, and barrel straight away.
#5: Inspect your bathroom cabinet
You would like to turn his whole apartment upside down, but mutual privacy is, of course, very important in a relationship. So the bathroom cupboard has to do the job: Why does he have so many care products? And what is the body lotion for women doing in his cupboard? And what are all these medications?
#6: Try to change him
Well, the guy doesn’t seem to be quite so perfect after all—but what isn’t yet can still become so. So first of all, a complete makeover: What does he want with those old T-shirts? A new haircut wouldn’t hurt him either, and why does he leave his socks lying around everywhere?
