We all make mistakes in a relationship. But now the dating portal “Elitepartner” has found out in a new study which mistakes would cause couples to break up. And this is precisely the relationship mistake that almost all of us make.
Lack of trust, different attitudes, or arguments: There are many reasons why couples split up. But there is one relationship mistake that we should stop immediately, because according to the dating portal “Elitepartner,” 50 percent of couples end their relationship if this mistake is made.
Understanding and support: These two things are the key to a functioning partnership. Every second person would break up with their partner if they didn’t get this. And unfortunately, this is often the case, because many of us prefer to bottle up our anger and worries rather than discuss them openly with our partner.
The relationship suffers from silence.
However, we should stop doing this because identifying problems with oneself can, in the long run, lead to major misunderstandings and arguments in a relationship. If our partner doesn’t know what’s wrong with us—be it just frustration at work or stress with our girlfriend—we become more and more distant from them.
So if we are in a bad mood or frustrated about something, our partner will mistakenly take it personally: arguments or disappointments ensue and the trust takes a serious hit. Of course, you don’t have to discuss every little detail with your partner, but you should share the problems that are bothering you with your loved one.
So, dear ladies, don’t try to bottle up your problems and worries so as not to burden your partner with them. Be open and share your suffering with your loved one. This is the only way he will know what is going on and what is bothering you.
