You will regret losing the woman who believed in you.

We women are like that: we give men a thousand chances. We believe they can get better, and we want to be there when that happens. That’s why so many of us end up in terrible relationships where the guy treats us badly, but we endure it, believing he will change.
We really want to believe that when he says he’ll get better, he will.

But when a woman realizes that she has had enough, nothing can be changed.  As soon as she realizes that her life without this man will be much better, as soon as she realizes that all her time and energy are wasted, it will all be over. And no matter how much he changes his body, lifestyle or career, it will not make her give up her new life, free from his influence.

Often men justify themselves by saying, “If she doesn’t accept me for who I am, then she doesn’t deserve me when I’m better.”  But the truth is, no one has to deal with someone else’s messes, and no one deserves to be in a difficult relationship with someone who won’t take responsibility for their own messes.

When a woman finally gives up such a man for herself, it may hurt his feelings, but the problem is in the man’s own actions.

Of course, when he finally changes, he will definitely be able to find a good partner. But the question is, will she love him and believe in him as much when he goes through hard times? And such periods in life are inevitable.

And then he will remember the one who believed in him when he was nothing. Who loved, supported and motivated him when he didn’t even ask her to. But it will be too late.