Relationship Advice: If you can’t get over your past love, here’s what will help you
Relationship Advice: If you can’t get over your past love, here’s what will help you
If you can’t get over your past love, here’s what will help you. You know, I couldn’t come to terms with the departure of one ex for 9 years, and this one thought completely changed my perception of reality.. 💔 💖
If you can’t get over a past love, there has to come a point in our attempts to let go when we fully realize our worth. Instead of thinking about our loss and what we miss about our ex, we need to accept the fact that he or she lost us too. It doesn’t matter who decided to end the relationship.
It doesn’t even matter if it ended peacefully or not. When we grieve for a relationship that ended and miss a person like a lost leg or arm, it’s because we focus on their absence rather than our own presence.
I loved him so much. I missed him so much it hurt. I wanted him back in every way possible. I was overwhelmed with loss because I was fixated on what I had lost. But when we fully understand our worth and accept ourselves as incredible individuals, then we can begin to change our perception of reality.
Just think about it: They lost us. All our exes lost us, so beautiful and incredible. They will wake up every day without us and miss all the changes that happen to us, including thanks to their departure.
Something incredible happened to me when I realized this.
When I realized that the one I missed would miss me, I took a step back. I stopped and realized my worth.
Instead of constantly thinking how lucky we are that someone chose us, we need to remember that they are also lucky if we let them into our lives.
When we begin to realize what we are worth, we even feel a little sorry for those people who decided not to be in our lives, although we invited them.
It’s their loss, whether they admit it or not. But we know what they’ve lost.
When we realize our worth, we begin to understand that we need to be with someone who also understands our worth. Because we are too good for someone who can leave us so easily.
