Love Advice: 5 Factors That Affect Relationship Duration. How Long Will Yours Last?
How often do you ask yourself: Have I chosen the right person as a life partner? Was this choice made consciously or under the influence of emotions that have long since subsided? How long will our relationship last?
You will find the answer in this article, which is based on various psychological observations of the behavior of couples.
The results presented in the article do not provide 100% accuracy, but there is certainly food for thought. Draw your conclusions after reading the post and analyzing your relationships. Write comments!
1. Smell.
We are mammals, which means that we are protein creatures by our structure. Protein always smells bad. Only protein acquires the necessary smell, and then the epithelium, mouth, armpits, groin area, secretions, and even the smell of thoughts—all this becomes strongly colored. The smell of another body suits you; it is yours—this is when you have an erection on another person.
If you give a reaction to this person, then the first factor worked.
So: The first is the smell. You cannot agree with the smell.
2. Shape and size of genitals.
The closeness of contact matters and affects the level of satisfaction on both sides.
3. Temperament
Temperament, i.e., the exit to the ecstatic phase at about the same time. Temperament is divided into two things. Temperament of behavior in everyday life, in life, and temperament of behavior in intimate proximity.
4. Level of leisure.
Leisure allows both of them to be interested in similar things at the same time.
They have common traditions for both of them. And most often it depends on a similar, common attitude to work.
Work is a compulsion, or work is a thrill.
And this is a basic, fundamental condition.
If work is a thrill, everything is fine, but you are the only one, and it will be extremely difficult for you to find a partner.
If work is a forced duty, i.e., if it were possible not to work, then you should not work, and then you will not be able to live with a person who experiences unimaginable pleasure from work. Idleness is on your mind, and he cannot live without work. You will not get along. There is such a funny phrase: Work to live, or Live to work. And 98% of the answers are in one direction, and 2% are in the other.
5. Feeling of shame, feeling of awkwardness.
This is called social status compliance. Where the person is from. His social status allows you to appear at a social gathering and not be ashamed of his behavior.
If you are not ashamed of your chosen one in society, in public places, then you will get along.
When and if level 1 worked, such a union would last for six months.
If levels 1 and 2 worked, such a relationship would last from 1 year to 3. If factors 1, 2, and 3
work, such a relationship will last 5-7 years.
If 1, 2, 3, 4 – such a relationship will last 11-12 years.
When 1, 2, 3, 4, and 5 work, such a relationship will last -25 years.
“And if both of them manage to be quite polite, friendly, mature, and respectful people to each other, then you can live until the end of life.” V. Lyubarov.
“Happiness is not a substitute for life. It is life itself, the open depth, with all its troubles, but also with the strength that depth gives. God, hidden in the depths, does not insure us from misfortunes, but he gives us the strength to endure misfortunes and, having lost everything, to begin living anew. Continuing on our way, we must again come out into a dark gorge, but we know that we will come out into the light again and rejoice in the light, and we will carry this joy through the darkness—until the next explosion of light.” Grigory Pomerants.
Be conscious in choosing a partner.
Don’t change yourself. Feel yourself. This feeling will not allow you to make a mistake. And if you make a mistake, it’s not scary. Admit it to yourself. Smile at yourself and move on.
