Love Advice: 10 Things Men Secretly Love About Their Wives
10 Things Men Secretly Love About Their Wives. Things your husbands love – even if they’ll never admit it! From the outside, it often seems like many husbands either treat their wives in a consumerist way or simply don’t take them seriously.
But when we are asked direct questions, we are always ready to admit that we do not just love our wives – we can boldly say that we really have something to love them for. After all, our women help us in so many things and affairs, not only small, but also large. Imagine if we praised them from morning until evening, and even that would still not be enough.
Yes, sometimes we, husbands, do not shower you with enough compliments, attention and care, but know that deep down most men secretly love their wives’ special character traits – even though they are not ready to admit it to the outside world, or, especially, to their own wives and even to themselves. So know, our beloved, there are at least 10 things that your husbands are simply delighted with – even if they never admit it. 10 Things Men Secretly Love About Their Wives:
1. Wives don’t think, they do
Our wives are not used to wasting time and guessing whether something should be done. When they see that some action is required of them, they just take it and do it. And more often than not, you don’t even know that this “something” was done – unless, of course, your wife initially asked you to do it for a long time – and after two or three weeks, remembering the task, you find that it has already been completed.
2. Wives always remember what we forget
Despite all the jokes about “maiden memory,” it is usually men who tend to forget things as soon as they hear about them. But our wives have an excellent memory – and this phenomenon has both a good and a bad side. They are quite capable of recalling all the mistakes and blunders ever committed by their husbands. Fortunately, in most cases, they either turn a blind eye to them or even forgive their husbands for all these stupidities. That is why it is so easy for us to love them.
3. Our wives become great mothers
Yes, yes, our wives and children – no matter how many of them – are simply magnificent. It is not for nothing that scientific research shows that it is their mothers and their level of education that are largely responsible for the level of education of their children. And it is not even that they help their children with their studies and homework.
They are the ideal for their children to follow. It is not without reason that in most families, when children grow up and leave their parents’ home, they usually call their mothers. And professional athletes, when they remember those to whom they owe their current success, most often remember not their fathers, but their mothers.
4. Wives love us despite all our imperfections
We all have to admit it… All men do stupid things sometimes, but their wives usually endure their stupidity with only the occasional eye roll or hand waving. And even when we say or do something that makes them question our sanity, they don’t stop loving us. Day after day, we husbands rejoice in the fact that our wives love us – and will continue to love us, no matter what.
5. Wives are always ready to comfort us when we are sick.
Men are simply not capable of enduring illness. Most women are quite capable of not even letting on that they are sick. And even when they are sick, they continue to fuss about the house – women simply cannot do otherwise. But when their husbands are put to bed by a common cold… oh, it almost always turns into a situation of “I’m dying, call an ambulance immediately.”
Our wives know that things aren’t that bad, but despite this, they are willing to spend time fawning over us – even to the point of taking a day off to do so. And when was the last time you took a day off to look after your sick wife? Beloved women, you are always willing to spend your time on us – how can we not love you for that?
6. Wives always know what delicious things to cook for us
We must admit, our wives have always known the true way to our hearts, the way that lies through our stomachs. After all, you must admit – sometimes it is divinely roasted meat, baked potatoes, strawberry pie or stewed lentils that make us surrender unconditionally to the mercy of our other halves.
Our wives are simply incredible – despite the fact that many of them work, they still manage to remain masters of the kitchen. Yes, of course, in our time many husbands have also mastered the great art of cooking – but not all.
7. Wives are able to predict a lot
Our wives have a sense that is much more subtle than the most sensitive radar! They know that something is about to happen, or that we are about to need something long before we realize it ourselves. And we simply adore our wives for this trait. After all, it is this that gets us out of many troubles, and gives us a bunch of different advantages – both short-term and long-term.
8. Wives always know what is where
Have you ever noticed that whenever you ask your loved one where something is that you can’t find, she always gives you an answer? She knows where you left your keys, threw your iPhone, or, for example, where you put a pair of worn-out but beloved pants. True, they usually know this precisely because they put all these things where they will be “safe” until we need them. But even if they did not do this – they still know what and where is. It is unclear how, but they do. And we love them very much for it.
9. Wives always know what and how to tell us
The world around us could learn from them. After all, our wives really know how to say the right thing, when it’s right. And when we say things that we shouldn’t say, it’s usually our wives who end up defusing the situation, or pushing us to say something that could fix all our sins. When we have troubles at work, and even when we suddenly lose our job, our wives always know how to turn the conversation in the right direction.
10. Our wives are much smarter than us
It really is. Luckily, we are all married – married to those who are smarter, more intelligent and more resourceful than us. Of course, most of the time we are not ready to admit it, but deep down we know that it is true. Just remember how many times it happened that you realized that your wife had calculated several possible scenarios in advance, or that she had more reasonable arguments than you? Our wives and daughters are created by nature to be more pragmatic and smarter than we are, and there is nothing we can do about it.
Often men either take their women for granted or simply don’t take them seriously. But when asked directly, we are always ready to admit that we don’t just love our wives – that they have something to love.
And so we all need to swallow our pride and start saying “thank you.” And we need to do it as often as possible. Stop pretending that the world revolves around us. Women deserve to be sung to every day — especially those who chose us, not just anyone. And if we can, we need to show them that we love them more than we could ever say in words.
Because they deserve it.
