10 Signs He’s Not The One For You, Even If He’s A Nice Guy!
You’ve been thinking about your relationship for a while now, but you haven’t made a decision yet. Probably because you feel like the guy/man you’re dating isn’t the one for you, no matter how nice he is. If you’re having doubts, then take a closer look.
To help you avoid confusion, we have compiled a list of signs that will help you determine if the man you are dating is not right for you.
10 Signs He’s Not For You:
1. He’s not for you if you can’t relax around him.
You are constantly trying to impress him. You can’t be yourself around him. You can’t read a book in silence or work on your own when he’s around. If he makes you feel like this, he’s definitely not the guy for you.
He’s not the one for you if you’re not comfortable with him. You can’t be yourself when you’re with him. You can’t do certain things for fear that he’ll think you’re weird or crazy. If you can’t be yourself with the person who’s supposed to be your soulmate, then that person isn’t meant to be your soulmate.
2. If you both have different expectations about sex:
He may want to get into bed with you right after a few dates, but you need more time. You want to communicate, spend time together, and do some active recreation before you get to that. It may also be that he doesn’t care about getting close to you at all.
Avoiding physical intimacy completely is also not a good sign. If he can’t understand your expectations regarding sex, then he is not someone you can be with for the rest of your life. Or at least for a long period of time.
3. If you can’t communicate with him normally:
Communication is one of the most important elements of a long-term relationship. If he doesn’t communicate with you often, doesn’t call you back after dates, or doesn’t call you at the end of the day, then that’s not normal. If you experience awkward silences when you’re together, then that’s a sign that he’s definitely not the one for you.
4. If you two always do things differently:
It is true that opposites attract, but two people in a relationship cannot be completely different. If he does not like doing what you do and you are not interested in his business, then this is a red flag that the relationship is definitely not working.
5. If you just like the idea of having a boyfriend:
There’s nothing wrong with having these feelings, but if you want to date other men other than him, that’s a warning sign that he’s not the right guy for you.
6. He’s not the one for you if he doesn’t introduce you to his friends.
How many times has he apologized and made excuses to you why he doesn’t introduce you to his friends and family? If he doesn’t allow you into his personal life, then just leave him and look for other options.
7. He is not for you if he cheats on you.
Cheating is not just a mistake; it’s a big mistake. If he truly loved you, he wouldn’t cheat on you. So if he broke your trust, consider whether he’s worth a second chance.
8. If it is not ripe:
Yes, we women have a tendency to be caring and mommy. But hey, come on! We’re not going to babysit someone forever, are we? Do you want a man or a little boy by your side? If he needs time to grow up and you need to play mommy all the time, leave him. You deserve better men.
9. If he is emotionally unavailable:
He may spend a lot of time with you, but if he is emotionally unavailable, he is probably not the right one for you. Being the better half means understanding all your partner’s needs. If he can’t provide you with emotional support, what’s the point?
10. If he doesn’t talk to you about the future:
When you are in a relationship, you plan a future together. If his plans for the future do not include you, then this is a warning sign that he is not thinking about you seriously.
