25 Intimate Questions to Ask Your Partner You can bet that in your entire life, you have never seen a more attractive person than the person sitting in front of you. His smile, his laugh, the way he wrinkles his nose, his eyes that look like half-moons when he laughs. You wonder if it’s even legal to be so perfect. Every word he says feels like a verse from the Holy Scriptures. You want to know everything about your “loved one.” When does he sleep? What is his favorite color? What is his favorite food? Is he right-handed or left-handed? It’s the last thing you think about before you fall asleep and the first thing you think about when you open your eyes.
For all the single people reading this, this might be a bit confusing. However, for someone who is already a few weeks into a new relationship, this is what they are intoxicated with. I guess we can say that love is nothing but a drug. You are already on cloud nine. It is this madness that makes you overcome any difficulties for your partner; throw your priorities aside if it will make your partner happy.
You can’t get over how compatible you are, but such contrasts. The two of you fit together like a lock and key, like two puzzle pieces that are nothing alike. However, the synchronicity and telepathy you both feel are beyond words. You crave not only their touch but every moment spent with them.
But like any drug, you need to increase the dose each time to reach the same level of intoxication. Love works a little similarly. Once you’ve learned everything you can, what do you talk about with your boyfriend? You don’t feel like the giddy fifteen-year-old you did back then. Your conversations are romantic and heartfelt, but there’s nothing to reignite the spark. You start your calls with “Hey, how are you?” more out of formality than any real desire to know how they’re doing.
There’s only one thought in your head. Is this the end? Well, if you want it to be, sure. But my question to you is, if the fire goes out, do you let it die out or do you try to keep it going? So what are these questions? These are the romantic questions to ask your boyfriend. These are the questions that set your relationship apart from the rest, the questions that allow you to connect on a deeper level, the questions that connect your souls.
Generally, things to talk about with your boyfriend don’t have to be rehearsed. They should be more spontaneous and sincere. However, here are some intimate questions to ask your partner.
1. What was the most difficult obstacle for you to overcome?
2. Think of one time when you didn’t tell me that something I did hurt you.
3. If you could change one thing about yourself, physically or otherwise, what would it be?
4. What are you not proud of?
Of? 5. Do you have any regrets?
6. What is most important to you in a friendship?
7. Do you plan to have a family with me?
8. What do you think about your relationship with your family? Do you think your childhood was better compared to others?
9. In case of a fire, what would you take with you after saving your family and pets and why?
10. What made you realize it was me?
11. Is there something you want to know about me but can’t remember?
12. What is your greatest accomplishment in life?
13. If you found a crystal ball that could answer any question you had, what would be the first question you asked?
14. If you woke up tomorrow in an alternate reality without me, what would you miss about me?
15. Have you ever sung a song from your heart to yourself, or someone else?
16. What is a perfect day for you?
17. Have you ever cried your heart out in front of someone or alone, and why?
18. What is the most terrible moment in your life?
19. What moment comes first on the list of the best?
20. Is there anything you don’t want me to know about you?
21. What do you think I can do for this relationship?
22. Rate all the changes you have seen in yourself over the past five years.
23. List everything you don’t like about me.
24. How do you see yourself reflected in our children?
25. Do you see yourself growing old with me?
The need to have such serious conversations with your boyfriend is rooted in your need to be special. It’s not about being the one who’s always there.
It’s about being the one who knows the most. What could be better than an honest conversation about intimate matters with your partner?
These conversations are never forced. These conversations are never forced. It doesn’t have to be a specific meeting that you have to set aside time for.
These are questions your heart longs to know. It could be while watching a movie or lying under the stars together. Some things can’t be learned online; they come from within.
