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If A Person Decides To Leave, He Will Leave Anyway. No Other Way!

If a person decides to leave, he will leave anyway. No other way!
The more you hold on to a person, the more he will want to leave. And the relationship will get worse and worse: he will perceive us as a jailer who is forcibly holding him; as an obstacle that hinders him. There will be nothing left of love, friendship, and respect. It makes no difference: lie at your feet or threaten with a pistol.

If a person decides to leave,  he will leave anyway. Even if you manage to postpone the inevitable for a while: through blackmail, bribery, flattery, threats… On the contrary, the more you hold on to a person, the more he will want to leave.

Will choose the right moment and run away

And the relationship will get worse and worse: he will perceive us as a jailer who is forcibly holding him; as an obstacle that hinders him. There will be nothing left of love, friendship, and respect.

It makes no difference: lie at your feet or threaten with a pistol.

The result is the same – he will choose an opportune moment and run away. The instinct of freedom will turn on; If you try to hold the animal, it will begin to bite, scratch, and break free. It’s instinct, you can’t do anything about instinct.

Persuasion, explanations, anger, and tears will not solve anything. And even money, if we are talking about work.

You can postpone leaving for a while. But this will aggravate the situation – he will leave anyway if he decides. It’s better to let go. Maybe he’ll come back, he’ll come back himself.

Maybe he will never return. But there is no point in clinging, only postponing the inevitable. Continue the suffering, prolong the uncertainty. Let them leave if they decide.

The sooner they leave, the less suffering. And let those in freedom think about whether it was worth leaving. And we will think about whether it is worth letting back the one who left. 

Think about these words and write what you think about them in the comments. If you liked this article, then share it with your friends and family! Love is a complicated thing, but loving and being loved is incredible happiness! Be happy!

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