The Unedited Truth About Why You Suck At Relationships, Based On Your Zodiac Sign
Things are just not going your way. You are trying so hard, but no matter what you do, you still suck at relationships.
Have you ever wondered why this is the way it is? Why are you bad at something regardless of how hard you try not to be? Well, some things are just the way they are. They are written in the stars and now you can read them and you can try to escape the “written destiny”. So check out what we will reveal about this big issue that you have!
You are all over the place! You should calm down. You are afraid of commitment and that’s the reason you jump from one relationship to another. You get bored very quickly and that is also the reason why you cannot be in a longer and more serious relationship. As soon as you see that things are getting monotonous, you are moving on to the next adventure. But that is where you make a mistake.
Maybe you are going to lose a good partner because of that kind of behavior and maybe you are giving up on people too easily. Slow down a little bit. Give others a chance to prove they are good enough. And one more thing! Stop being so moody!!
You have a reputation of being stubborn. And that is usually the case. But in a relationship, you seem distant. It’s like you build this huge wall around you and put yourself on a pedestal and you won’t let anyone reach you. You pretend to be untouchable. That can come off as self-centered. You may look like that but you’re actually not.
When that right person cracks that wall, he or she will find a nice, warm and caring person who is devoted to his or her partner. That’s why you need to have sympathy for others and give them a chance to show you that they really deserve you. I am sure you won’t regret it!
You act like a little child. Your brain is working a million miles per hour. You cannot concentrate for more than 3 minutes. You want to do so many things in a short time but you can’t make it. One day you want something and the other day you don’t feel like doing it anymore. This is a problem because while you are in a relationship, you can change your mind in the blink of an eye.
You are not paying attention well enough and the truth is that no one wants to date a big baby. Snap out of it! Focus! You are a big boy/girl now! When you really decide to act as an adult, you will find your happiness in love.
Your main problem is that you don’t have the balls to stand up for yourself—especially in a relationship. That’s why all your relationships “die”. You are not able to say out loud what you want and what you think, so you always do what your partner wants and what your partner thinks. Wake up!
No one will fight your battles. If you don’t stick up for yourself, you will never succeed in having a stable relationship. And the worst part is that after some time, you won’t be happy with someone who has been telling you what to do throughout the whole relationship. So, to prevent any further problems, stand up for yourself now and always say what you want.
Only then will you find someone who will accept you just the way you are.
You are an attention freak. Your ego is enormous. No one wants to be in a relationship where he or she has to pay you compliments and make you feel beautiful and invincible all the time. That’s exhausting. Love is a two-way street.
Don’t think that someone will put up with you no matter how much they love you. Reduce your ego to the minimum because you are not alone in a relationship. Please, pay attention to your partner and your relationship might last longer.
The two of you have to be equals in a relationship and everyone’s opinion should be respected.
We get it! You are insanely organized and precise. But, if you don’t lower your expectations, you will never find the right person and you will always suck at being in a relationship. Perfection isn’t a thing. Nobody is perfect and neither are you. It is just that you don’t see it now, but there are people who find your perfection a problem.
Imagine your partner having to be totally perfect all the time just because you want it. One day, they will get sick and tired of it and leave. So don’t expect your partner to do everything perfectly. If you don’t start accepting people’s flaws and all, you will end up alone.
You should teach every other sign how to be in a relationship because YOU ROCK!! Of course, you are not perfect but you are the best of all the other signs. So it’s not easy for you to date because you have high expectations.
It’s because you act almost perfectly and others are falling behind. You know how much you bring to the table and you want your partner to act the same. But perfection doesn’t exist and you should remember that. So good luck being in a relationship, unless you find another Libra…
You have the reputation of being a liar. It’s the same thing when you are in a relationship. You are afraid of the commitment and to open up to someone emotionally. You don’t trust anyone and you protect yourself by lying.
You are creating huge walls around you because you have been hurt in the past and you don’t want that to happen again. That’s why you act so anxiously when in a relationship. My advice—relax! It’s not gonna kill you!
You are freaked out all the time. You are a big-time control freak. You are afraid that when you are in a relationship, you will lose that control and that can be off-putting to your partner. Because of your control issues, you may seem distant—especially when you get the feeling you are losing that control.
If you continue behaving like that, you will miss all those happy moments with your partner and you won’t be able to fully enjoy your love. Relax a bit, let things go their way sometimes and enjoy yourself! You will see that everything will be just fine!
You can be a real buzz-kill. You are hard on everyone else, but you feel that it is OK because you are hard on yourself as well. You are focused on your end goals and you miss having fun along the way. It’s the same thing in a relationship. Everything has to be by the book and that’s just boring. Lighten up a bit!
If you try to relax, you will show your partner that there is some adventure left in you. Stop worrying so much. It’s off-putting. Maybe that will be fine with your partner at the beginning of your relationship, but this won’t function in the long run. So change things in time, so you can enjoy yourself later!
Being in a relationship with you is really hard. You think you are a know-it-all and that no one is on the same level as you are. You think that you are intellectually superior to others. Please stop talking about your accomplishments and start listening to others.
Relationships are all about love, not about competition. You need to have empathy for your partner in order to make an emotionally stable relationship with them. And although you think you are the smartest person alive, you’re not!
You think that you are open and your partner sees how much you love him or her. But that’s not the case. What happens inside your head and how you perceive yourself is the total opposite of what it looks like from the outside.
You can’t live in your own imagination all the time because real life is waiting for you and you need to go the extra mile if you want to get some things. So, stop daydreaming and open your eyes!