How to understand what a man loves with just one question?
True love is when you are accepted with all your giblets and shortcomings, which you, of course, can somehow fight and improve yourself, but at the same time, you will understand that you are loved and accepted for who you already are.
A woman always wants to find out and understand whether the man with whom she has been in a relationship for a long time loves her. In fact, there is one question that can help you with this.
By putting it to your man, you will understand how he treats you and what he feels – unconditional true love or just comfort from the fact that you are the way he wants you to be.
How to understand what a man loves – ask just one question
Just ask him one simple question: “What do you think I should be like?” and then listen very carefully to his answer, because it determines how a man perceives and treats you.
Of course, there may be quite a lot of options for his answers, but basically, they will still come down to one of two.
First option:
This is when, in response to your question, a man begins to very actively tell you that in his opinion you should be well-groomed and fit, feminine, thrifty, gentle, caring, loving, sexy, and at the same time sweet, and also be interested in everything that he is, like his friends and family, and much more from his list of requirements for the ideal woman of his dreams.
Or this will be the second option:
Then he will say that you just have to be yourself because that’s exactly how he fell in love with you.
And if you want to change or improve something about yourself, then he, of course, will support you and will be happy to help you if it makes you happier, but, in his opinion, you are already beautiful and it’s enough for you to just be… just being happy is the most important thing for him.
I think you have already understood, based on these answers, when a man really loves his woman and sincerely wishes her happiness, and when he simply wants to “blind” his ideal out of her and he will be with her exactly as long as she is this “ideal” image” will be able to support.
Therefore, draw the right conclusions and remember that true love is when you are accepted with all your giblets and shortcomings, which you, of course, can somehow fight and improve yourself, but at the same time, you will understand that you are loved and accepted as such, as you already are.
That is, you are already enough and you don’t need to jump over your head every day to somehow impress and keep your loved one close.
After all, he values, first of all, what kind of person you are, and not just your “wrapper”; he values your uniqueness – exactly what distinguishes you from hundreds of others and exactly because of which he once fell in love with you.
Of course, not only the answer to this question is of great importance, but also how a man treats you, that is, whether he backs up his words with his actions and efforts, because this is very important.
But, in my opinion, it is exactly how a person perceives you – as an object for improvement, on which you still have to work and work or as a living person with your pros and cons, but so loved and dear – is of key importance in building truly harmonious and happy relationships. This is the kind of relationship I sincerely wish for you!
