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If You Do These 10 Things, You Are A True Love Addict

Love is such a beautiful thing. Yet, when you cross the line, it can turn into some serious shit! You see, sometimes people in love get attached very easily and they would do anything for their loved one.

They can’t imagine a day without their partner and they can’t wait to get home from work just to be with them. So day by day, their love becomes less about love and more about suffocating because they don’t have realistic expectations.

They think that they should always stick to their partner no matter what he does and in most cases, they live a life that is not fulfilled with love but with sadness.

People like this are called love addicts because there isn’t a problem big enough for them that they can’t solve with some extra love.

So, if you want to find out if you are a love addict, check these signs. If you recognize yourself in most of them, chances are that you are simply addicted to love!

1. When you love, you never let go

When you are in love, you will never let your partner leave you. He can act badly toward you but you will make excuses for him to stay. You will say to yourself that he is just going through a rough phase in his life and that he will change.

You won’t be able to see the world you live in realistically and that can cost you your nerves and your health. So, before you actually decide to spend your life with someone even if he hurts you, think about if he is really worthy of your tears.

 

2. You fall in love easily

You are known by the fact that you fall in love so easily that even you can’t believe you are like that. It is enough just to see someone’s nice eyes or a charming smile to get hooked on him.

And once you fall for someone, you don’t want to think about his negative sides but you see only those positive ones. You always tend to idealize the person you have fallen for and you never listen to warnings from other people.

3. Pleasing your partner is your priority

When you fall in love, you forget to think about yourself and about your needs. Your main goal is to satisfy your partner’s needs, even if that means neglecting yourself and your needs.

You don’t want to do something that could make him mad or, God forbid, sad and you always go the extra mile to give him what he craves. The problem is that by behaving like this for too long it can cause you to totally lose yourself over someone who doesn’t even love you as much as you love them.

4. You are focused on love and you forget other things

If you are a love addict, you will be only focused on getting the love you crave without thinking about other things and people. You will only focus on your loved one and you will totally neglect your friends and family.

You will think that you always have to be with your partner but chances are that you will just suffocate him with that kind of behavior. Instead, you can have some time for yourself only and give him his free time as well. In that way, you will take your relationship to a whole new level!

 

5. You are terrified of losing your loved one

When you fall in love, you will do anything to stay with your partner because you are so afraid of losing him. You couldn’t stand it if he left you and found someone else while you were still madly in love with him.

That’s why you do some things that you would never do if you were not a love addict. You always put him first but the problem is that the wrong man can take advantage of you in that way. It is okay to put your loved one first but he also needs to show you how much he loves you.

6. You are very clingy in a relationship

When you fall for someone, you don’t let him go out alone, even for a second. Your idea of love is something that can sound odd to people around you but you insist on it. You think that you should always be with your loved one and if there was a chance to even go to work with him, you would.

Since you can’t do that, you often surprise him with lunch at his workplace. Taking care of your loved one is so sweet but being too clingy and needy can actually push him away. So think twice next time if you want to act like that because maybe he doesn’t like it but is scared to admit it.

 

7. You jump into a relationship just to avoid being single

You are known to jump from one relationship to another just because you don’t want to be single. When you are single you don’t feel good and you think that you will never find love.

You can even sink into a depression and feel unattractive if you don’t find someone for a long period of time. But you should know that you are special and unique just the way you are and that you shouldn’t jump into a relationship before you get to know a man first.

Trust me, getting to know your partner is essential if you are planning anything serious with him.

8. You get jealous for no reason

If your man talks to another woman in the street, you become jealous and you don’t think straight. You simply can’t stand him smiling at another woman and looking at her.

When he does that, you believe that he finds her attractive and that he forgets about you. I know that some guys do that but if your man has never given you a reason to be jealous, don’t punish him for the things he would never do to you.

 

9. You are happy only when he is near

If you are a true love addict, you will be happy only in the presence of your partner. You won’t spend time with your friends and your family but you will focus on him only. That is nice at the beginning of a relationship but there can come a time when you will need help from your family or friends and they won’t be there since you neglected them all the time.

To avoid that, make sure that you find some balance between family and your loved one. I can assure you that you will have a better quality of life with all the people who love you who will always be close.

10. You never believe him when he says he loves you

When you are in a love relationship, you are constantly anxious that he doesn’t love you as much as you love him. You are afraid that he will find a girl who is more beautiful than you and leave. And that’s why you can’t relax and enjoy your love like you are supposed to.

You will constantly ask your partner if he loves you and how much. And even if he lies to you, you will feel better because you heard what you wanted to hear from his mouth. But that is not a good way to live a happy life. You need to start loving yourself first so others would love you as well. And if he leaves, just know that everything happens for a reason and don’t panic. The right one will come along when you least expect him!

 

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