What a man should never do. Dear girls, clearly define for yourself what you are under no circumstances ready to accept in a man (drunkenness, gambling, and other ailments) and under no circumstances become a rescuer with whom he will certainly change!
DO NOT change, period, and you will suffer, and even end up in codependency, and there, as they say, the entrance is a ruble, the exit is two.
At the beginning of a relationship, you especially want to appear in all your glory and show your best sides, and this is quite normal, it is not normal to overact and lose yourself, and for many this turns out to be quite a fine line. So let’s discuss what you definitely shouldn’t do.
What a man should never do:
1. Fit into your partner’s standards, from clothing to plastic surgery.
If a partner does not accept your appearance/appearance, he will always find something to complain about and once he gives in, it is not so easy to stop.
It’s very easy to lose yourself, but then picking up the pieces is a completely different matter.
2. Initially lie
It’s one thing to remain silent about something, to indicate that you are not ready to discuss this topic yet/at all, but an outright lie is another thing. Sooner or later, everything is hidden and disappointment is inevitable, but regaining trust is not an easy task.
3. Give up your friends, hobbies, work, faith.
If he initially dictates such conditions, what should we expect next? Then it will be certain that nothing will be surprising.
4. Solve his problems.
Do not kill the man in it, especially with your own hands. Many women confuse support and meddling in other people’s affairs. A woman’s task is to instill confidence in a man, in his strength, to encourage him, and not to do it for him.
Otherwise, then you can wonder for a long time: “Why is everything on me and how did this happen?”
And you shouldn’t confuse support with pity, otherwise you’ll have to feel sorry for yourself later. More often we say: “You are my hero, I believe in you, and you are completely capable of coping.”
You can describe a hundred points that you want to see in a man, they may even coincide, but there may be one that will cancel out everything positive.
Therefore, dear girls, clearly define for yourself what you are under no circumstances ready to accept in a man (drunkenness, gambling, and other ailments) and under no circumstances become a rescuer with whom he will certainly change!
It will NOT change, period, and you will suffer, and you will also fall into codependency, and there, as they say, the entrance is a ruble, and the exit is two. Now you know what you should never do for a man
